wizjenkins

My first thought as well. Should have called it Diabetes Jelly.

Actually he needs a developer to disable federation. It's on be l by default and to my knowledge there is no way to disable it.

Hot and active are currently broken and will show stale content. It's a Lemmy thing not a Jerboa thing. I'm hoping they fix this in the upcoming version that's in testing right now.

I'll plug my own podcast, Find the Path. We get a lot of feedback that people really like our roleplay and how we aren't a "comedy" podcast. We have a few different shows that cover different genres. We play Pathfinder 1st and 2nd edition but you don't need to know the rules to enjoy the show.

I recommend starting with Hell's Rebels since it's our most polished public show. Link to it all is on our website https://find-path.com

That game HAS to be played with headphones or a super good surround sound. The directionality of the voices in Senua's head is next level.

Gacha games completely turn me off. I just hate random loot boxes or other gimmicks to get you to spend money for the chance at getting something neat.

Yes

Diablo 4 with my wife. Double Necromancer party is just chaos.

Yes NPM is for basic reverse proxying, so one URL to one server. If you wanted to scale and load balance across multiple servers you'd need regular nginx with a text config file since you literally can't configure a second or third server.

And I'd still find that easier than Traefik, but maybe that's just because I've been using Apache2 and nginx for like a decade at this point so it's what I know.

There are a few I found in Github here: https://github.com/topics/lemmy-bot. This one looks like it's a pretty generic bot: https://github.com/SleeplessOne1917/lemmy-bot

There is an API for Lemmy, though the easiest way to make a bot would be to use one of the official libraries to talk to Lemmy: https://github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy#libraries

I'm not saying we shouldn't be able to hard delete comments, I'm just explaining why the Lemmy developers might not have started with hard-deleting comments. I agree with you we should have the option and it should propagate regardless of any instance settings.

My point in mentioning other servers not deleting your comments is that ActivityPub is an open standard. Technically someone can write a Lemmy competitor that federates with your instance and does not implement the hard deletion of comments. It's allowable under the protocol. That doesn't mean the feature isn't worth implementing, it just means there are caveats to "this comment disappears off the Internet forever" like we'd like.

I host my instance exactly like this with Nginx Proxy Manager. Here's my config:

• Block Common Exploits and Websockets Support - on
• Add a custom location with the following settings:
  • proxy_set_header X-Real-IP $remote_addr;
  • proxy_set_header X-Forwarded-For $remote_addr;
  • proxy_set_header X-Forwarded-Host $remote_addr;
  • real_ip_header X-Real-IP;
  • real_ip_recursive on;
• for SSL turn on HTTP/2 Support

I had to add the custom config so that I would get the IP address of the clients and federated servers. Otherwise I was hitting rate limits on the Lemmy server.