They hate women, want to rape them and remove their rights, so women, utterly predictably, hate them back. It's not complicated. Try telling black people to empathise with the poor little white supremacists more and see how far you get.
Incels aren't new btw. I tried to read 1984 recently and had to stop because the main character is an incel.
I don't like mondays
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FcZW0GFLSdw