volvoxvsmarla

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[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 10 points 6 months ago

We visited friends in Serbia in summer. It took me back to this smoking world I had long forgotten. Inside smoking and non smoking tables in crowded cafes side by side. And the craziest part was the indoor playgrounds for kids with cafes adjacent or part of it where you could also smoke (and buy hard liquor). But you know what, my kid could play for less than 1,5€ an hour on a rainy day, even when I lived in Munich there were like 2 indoor playgrounds in a 50 km radius and they cost a fortune. They had them everywhere for dirt cheap. So, I'll happily get off my high horse.

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Oh I don't interpret this as a condescending insult, I thank you for your on point analysis and am happily throwing some rocks.

I also cannot believe that after 16 fucking years of status quo under CDU and Merkel, of nothing moving forward, our minimally left-green leaning government got blamed for everything going wrong in our country and the world and how do you dare not to fix everything within less than 4 years you morons. And the solution - elect the CDU of course! Good thing I stopped drinking or I'd end up in the hospital after the next election.

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 3 points 6 months ago (2 children)

So they can theoretically be held together? Like, 3 roosters 15 chicken in one group?

Also, and I am sorry if this sounds dumb, but is there any kind of birth control for chicken? Or do you just eat fresh eggs with 1 day old embryos inside all the time? Can you castrate a rooster?

(Wait isn't there even a dish with a castrated rooster? I think it was in a play by Bertold Brecht)

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 6 points 6 months ago

I did get a discount foot massage once though.

Worth it. Now I wish I was born with tiny feet.

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 6 points 6 months ago (15 children)

I think one of the problems is that you basically can't keep many roosters together (I'm not even sure you can keep two roosters together). That means that for a sanctuary you need huge space so that the roosters don't kill each other. So while I also buy eggs that guarantee that the male chicks will be raised, I wonder how this is supposed to work if I pay only like 50 cents per egg and half of the hatched eggs are male.

(Note that my knowledge on rooster farming comes from a German or possibly German-French documentary on that, so I might be talking out of my ass here.)

(I think I just remember that 2€/egg was the price calculated in the documentary for ethical farming without losses for the farmers. This was some years ago. To be fair - I'd totally pay that for an egg. Egg as an ingredient can be easily substituted and as a standalone dish it can be something special that I'm willing to pay for. )

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 5 points 6 months ago

Funnily enough, I feel like in most social situations people would think I was insane or overfocused on them if I kept steady eye contact - which I easily could. But I consciously decide to let my eyes wander every now and then to let them feel less pressure. Because honestly I doubt that the cashier or my daughter's kindergarten teacher wants me to think that I talk to them like they are the only people in the room and I am 100% focused on them. I especially prefer looking "to the side" when I listen because I am way too scared for people to think I am a maniac who wants to make them my whole world.

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 7 points 6 months ago

I agree and hope so too. I think a lot of the frustration and hate comes from Trump actually having been elected. Basically, if you meet someone who voted, there is about a 50:50 chance that they have voted for this. When your vote influences not just your own country but the entire world, that guarantees blame and anger from others.

Now, you can argue whether elections are fair when one party is funded by billionaires and has access to media to spread any misinformation they want. Gerrymandering and a lot of other practices surely play a role in making this not absolutely fair. Let alone that insanity of a two party system. But at the end of the day, this is still an elected president, who even won the public vote, if I remember correctly. It is not the same as obviously rigged elections as in, for example, Russia (where people get even much more hate for their president, as if they had the power to vote or change anything).

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

It never made sense to me. You spent 1 hour of your 24 hours a day doing something you would not do for fun. Your 1 hour is just as long as my 1 hour. Both of us sacrifice the same amount of free time out of our lives doing something we'd rather not do. Why should we be paid differently?

If anything, the higher ranking the job, the more it allows for chatting with colleagues, going out for lunch, taking coffee breaks. You get much more "fun time" than labor intense workers do. Shouldn't you be paid less? There is an added benefit in your job to begin with. The luxury of being able to sit and get coffee when you want to is already quite a blast tbh.

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Sorry to read that. But in some way I am almost relieved that you seem to finally know what caused your insanely severe case of ARFID. I remember when you were posting about your time at the Mayo clinic and the awful mismanagement there and was very sad and disappointed (not by you) that you were bombarded with enough armchair diagnostics to stop updating about your case.

When did you get diagnosed with TN2? And how long was the gap between the kidney stones and your last bite, if I may ask?

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Did you adopt the half skinned one or the spared one? Did the former survive?

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 3 points 6 months ago

I am unsettled indeed

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 1 points 7 months ago

It's a sphincter that lets a lot of shit enter your body

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