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I use the back of paid bills, opened envelopes, receipts etc to jot down notes, phone numbers, names, dates, or todos whenever I need it (usually during a phone call or while "cleaning" or reading emails on the bus).

I keep them visible on the table or in my bag until they have been completed and then thrown them away. Or until I lose them, and if nothing bad happens it probably wasn't that important to keep anyway. I try to transfer important notes to more durable versions, or gather todo-scraps or half-done lists into one clean list on a bigger scrap frequently.

I tried keeping notes on my phone or in a notebook, but it's never there when I need it plus I get overwhelmed with decisions regarding organising when so many different notes need to be gathered in just one place (how do I separate work from private from volunteer-notes? What do I do with things that will be outdated in a week? Do "buy soil or make own?" really belong in the same book as "breathe, you fool!" and "monday: bus 7:37, pack bag and pee 7:20"? And how do I find the notes I need to read often among the notes I only need to real when they are relevant?)... so I just never get a good system going.

I didn't really think about it. 28 felt like a milestone, because I had never planned to pass 27.

I partied way too hard on my 30th birthday though, and went into outpatient rehab a few months later, which was a turning point more than a milestone.

My thirties is when I finally grew into myself. I found my motivation, I got clean, I got diagnosed, I quit my job, finished high-school AND got a whole-ass degree, I moved to a different city and made way healthier friends, picked up a few new (and some really old) hobbies, and got a better relationship with my family.

My thirties was also painful as fuck. It took years before I found anything fun while sober. It took years to fully appreciate and embrace the quiet solid friendship of non-addicts and emotionally healthy people. I spent a lot of my thirties resigned to be bored for the rest of my life. I thought I might never truly enjoy things again after leaving the rush of emotional instability and constant dopamine fixes in my twenties...

But thinking back now I realise I finally am excited about things again. I look forward to stuff because it's fun and intriguing and challenging! I plan meetups and events, not just because I should or it's good for me, but because I want to! Thank you for this question, it really made me see how far I've come.

Some milestones are easy to see because they happen in an instant, like getting your first apartment or planning a vacation for the first time. Some milestones creep up on you and don't have a clear time, like noticing you're not wheezing when breathing after going uphill because you quit smoking or started walking to work or getting over a relationship ending. I don't think any milestones depend specifically on how many days it's been since you took your first breath. Milestones are individual, not chronological.

Everyone has time for the things they prioritize. And not much more.

FMC: Oxygen line malfunctions. Experts estimate 100% casualties. Mars ambassador to Earth: "No contact has been made as of now, investigation is underway".

The news will start shortening to FMC because "First Mars Colony" will be such a frequent headline.

I will not be involved myself, I just assume I'll live waaaay too long and die peacefully in a parachute accident that same day.

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I would go to bed and just from the duvet rustling notice which cat comes running to be the little spoon.

Or I would sit with some yummy human food (like butter) and see which one will stop sniffing at it when I tell them to leave it, and instead go sit patiently at their own place waiting for their taste of the treat (cats aren't known for their patience, but we have developed this ritual together.. next step is utilising the same command when it's time for their food and see if I can stop that darn yowling).

Soap, particularly the one made for washing floors. It has a very discreet smell and doesn't linger too much. I also have quite a small bathroom so I hang laundry to dry in most other rooms.

I mostly prefer my home smelling "clean" rather than perfumed, but I have on occasion used those sticks in containers with perfumed oil, but with only one or two sticks (the fragrance can be really overpowering when using all the sticks, and the oil will last longer with fewer sticks in it) - maybe try that? It will last a few weeks at least.

Still...3-4 days sound very short for a plugin. It might be that you get used to the smell after a few days? Most of us become nose-blind to our own homes. Ask someone else to visit and tell you if they can smell it once you think the fragrance is gone.

I start work way too early for me, so I only brush my teeth before leaving home. Do slow work (e-mails, go over today's schedule, routine/repetitive tasks) for the first part of the day, then meds and breakfast (a huel-shake from a bag I keep at work). My office has like a breakfast/post-breakfast meeting the same time every day so it's a great reminder to eat and medicate during it.

Same for lunch: shake and meds.

A generous helping of nuts and raisins for a snack about 1-1,5 hours before leaving work otherwise I'll crash the moment I get home and not manage a thing, not even a single positive thought, for the rest of the day. Then I'll eat the rest of my energy intake for dinner and supper, because I'm always at a deficit during work days.

I still dont see how that's relevant to the comment you replied to in the context of this thread.

I really don't know how to interpret this.. Grounding in the here-and-now is bad for people who dissociate? But that doesn't make sense, please explain: What do you mean?

That is indeed a hot take.

Why would people ever develop/improve (aside from maintenance/keeping living standards) on their land, build more, change zoning, generation house on the same lot, etc, when that would only result in their government rent (aka tax) going up?

Wouldn't rich people be able to rent a lot of land for higher prices than normal people, driving the prices up until they control most of the government rentals, then rent it out to the rest of us for insane prices (kinda like now, except their whole revenue has to come from tenants, without the security of being able to sell the land and recoup the losses that way)...?

You say the government makes no money from the transaction of the specific buildings on the lot so they have no reason to overvalue it, except that you said the lots value would depend ont he buildings on it, so the government would receive higher rent fron higher valued buildings in lita so they have incentives to value it higher to collect higher rent...

I have a local newspaper for my municipality every morning.

It mostly deals with local news that doesn't reach the big news outlets. It's slow to report world events (which I like to think is because they actually bother to confirm events before printing). It balances upsetting reports with feel-good and positive stories, and informs me of happenings (markets, small festivals, historical celebrations, crafting, classes and other events) locally that I would never hear about any other way.