undefinedValue

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[–] undefinedValue@programming.dev 28 points 2 months ago

Hah, this guy doesn’t get it

[–] undefinedValue@programming.dev 41 points 2 months ago (8 children)

I don’t understand how this could happen unless that pot is somehow plastic? Maybe 3D printed?

[–] undefinedValue@programming.dev 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

A forever lease dude? If that’s in the deal then imma be honest with you and tell you me and my hommies are declaring homelessness and moving to wherever this meme is from. We can rebuild our lives from a point of never paying rent again.

[–] undefinedValue@programming.dev 1 points 3 months ago

You misunderstood me. I’m saying by their definition chicks with dudes don’t exist… as in the GP would dismiss them as men with dicks.

[–] undefinedValue@programming.dev 1 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Is that really common among terfs?

I’ve seen some truly toxic female tictokers where every second video is about how men are the worst and we don’t need them for anything and I was wondering how someone gets to that point.

[–] undefinedValue@programming.dev 0 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Well not by their definition

[–] undefinedValue@programming.dev 3 points 3 months ago

Not just that but it gives me hope when I find wholesome communities online

[–] undefinedValue@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I’d recommend going with Command strips, you can get them for pretty cheap at pharmacies (some times) and hardware stores. They stick on the wall like nobodies business and velcro your paintings on. The best part is no holes or paint damage to repair when you move out!

[–] undefinedValue@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago

Interestingly I’ve found that the older we get, the more we are able to think back on our childhood and examine the behavior of our parents. I think this peaks in our 30s.

[–] undefinedValue@programming.dev 1 points 3 months ago

Sometimes we change, sometimes our friends change. We outgrow people all the time. I think if we were to strip out the complications of your story (trans, poly, surgery, your move) and just look at the human element, people you were close with said they didn’t want to be around you anymore, then your left with a clearer picture.

This is hard, but it’s now a common story that anyone can empathize with and understand. This has happened to me before too, I lost two close friends in the span of a month. I took the time to introspect on my behavior which helped me understand if this was a freak coincidence or something about me that I should understand and fix.

The worst thing you can do for yourself is label yourself a victim and engage in self-pity. Don’t tell yourself these people cut ties with me because of XY&Z circumstance going on in my life right now, or XY&Z label I identify as. Doing so would block your ability to learn from this event and all but guarantee you experience it again in the future.

Introspection is hard and can be quite painful but it’s absolutely the key to become a better person. Stay strong, you got this!

[–] undefinedValue@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago

I find it hilarious that everyone seems to know who this person is and have firm opinions on her, while I’m just scrolling Lenny and looking for funny memes.

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