triptrapper

joined 2 years ago
[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I'll go out on a limb and say that working out your sexual needs, communication, abilities, expectations, etc. is an uncomfortable process for everyone. No amount of preemptive mental work can substitute for the actual experience of having sex and figuring it out that way. It's a bumpy road, but if you're doing your best to be respectful and embrace the process, you WILL figure it out.

[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

Right. They're only interested in catching liberal pedophiles, and they'll do any gymnastics necessary to absolve conservatives. Even if they're on the same list, they'll just say half the list is fake news.

[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Therapist here. The concept of a "real depressed person" is brought to you by insurance companies (so they can deny coverage), the APA (so they can sell the DSM) and big pharma (so they can sell you drugs). The criteria are arbitrary and often discourage people from seeking help when they don't think their suffering is "real enough." Most therapists I know hate the diagnostic process, but we're forced to do it so your insurance will pay for treatment.

Anyone who's feeling depression that disrupts their lives is welcome to see a psychiatrist, or a therapist, or both. Both types of providers are here to help, and we'll refer you to any additional providers if it's appropriate.

Edit: for a deeper dive into the over-pathologizing of human experiences, I recommend Allen Frances' Saving Normal and Ethan Watters' Crazy Like Us. The latter has a chapter on GlaxoSmithKline's crusade to change Japan's cultural understanding of depression from a natural response to external events, to a pervasive disease that needs treatment (like Paxil!)

[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No known motive and no known connection to the victims. I cannot wrap my head around it.

[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

+1 for WTFJHT. Bless that man for sifting through unfiltered news to protect the rest of us from MSM brain rot.

[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Might be more efficient for them to publish a daily count. "Today IDF has killed ___ civilians waiting for food and water." Just disgusting.

[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

But techbro 10 years ago was an undercut and a leather jacket. I'm hoping there's a label for this iteration.

[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 34 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

Looks like he and Zuck have the same stylist. Anyone know what this look is called, with the oversized tee and chain around his neck?

[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Medicare doesn't cover long-term care. When the elderly drain their savings on a nursing home that's when Medicaid kicks in.

[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I know someone who just got hired at an unfinished Meta data center, ostensibly to do some low-level hardware monitoring and maintenance. His boss admitted that he accidentally hired people a couple months too early, so the first couple weeks have consisted of sitting around, eating free food and playing mobile games. Next week they're being flown to an active data center out of state, but they won't have much of their own work to do for another 4-6 weeks.

So these guys are being paid $25/hr, 40hrs a week, with a free lunch, and making no money for the company. I would expect any other company to find this unacceptable, but it's just a drop in the bucket for Meta.

[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Damn dude, these are legendary "this guy knows his shit" comments.

 

Hey all, I'm very new to self-hosting and have no background in anything computer-related. I'll explain in as much detail as I can. I'm running Plex on a Synology DS220+. I'm using the Plex app, i.e. not using Docker (see note below).

The issue: I can watch Plex on my local network in 4K, but outside my local network it barely makes it to 720p. I thought it was an issue with my upload speed, but I got gigabit last week and it hasn't fixed the issue. I have remote access enabled in Plex through a manually-specified port. The issue persists with my own account and any friends who have access to my library.

I appreciate any advice, links or questions you can offer!

NOTE: I understand the benefits of Docker and I promise to transition in the future. I spent many hours learning and troubleshooting, and it was even functional at times, but eventually I needed something that just worked.

EDIT: You all have been so helpful and supportive. Thanks for meeting me where I'm at and sharing some potential issues.

EDIT2: I found the culprit by accident. I had UPnP enabled on my router. I turned it off and my local speeds increased significantly, and my Plex library is available remotely. I don't know how or why UPnP is related, but that's what the solution was for me. Thanks again for all your input and support.

 

There are a few spots I've neglected to replace old brittle sealant (around the kitchen sink) or never sealed at all (new faucet I installed 8 months ago). Now there's black gunk accruing under and around the sealant.

When I go to replace the sealant, how do I kill the mold so it's safe to seal over again?

Thanks for any advice you can offer.

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