irl - I generally find going regularly to something that aligns with your interests helps. eg, taking a hobby class, volunteering, interest-related clubs. but it takes a lot of work to be consistent and doesn't happen straight away! and you have to go out of your way to interact a lot of the time.
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I appreciate the sentiment & I agree. while I'm not trans, but I don't want to be anywhere where I feel unsafe to be queer and feel unable to experiment with how I express myself. transphobia is obviously a slippery slope and will just further push us out
sorry that many users are such waste disposal units on lemmy ๐ I feel like I can't do much alone but I concur that our mods should be acting against harassing you for your identity. the unpredictable nature of getting weird bigoted replies to just regular nice people makes me anxious about posting much - like I never know what to expect. I'm hoping a better community can grow here.
the whole thing was bizarre and unnecessary! kind of casted a lot of doubt on the integrity mod team for me. the onehundredninetysix community has been pretty cool and I'll keep sending posts their way
having guy friends who act normal are great when it happens! I have a couple at least.
so cute ๐ I like no. 1
you gotta go out of your way to be a force for good when things feel grim
the kink community is so cool and interesting with things like this! thanks for sharing
noooooo ๐ญ
oh hi !!!!!!!
alternative edit: replace the cop car with a tesla