sudneo

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[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 0 points 3 months ago (2 children)

No that's the thing. Plex can also use their infra as a tunneling system. You can have remote streaming without exposing Plex publicly and without VPN. It is slow though.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Plex works even without DDNS and port forwarding. What you are talking about is otherwise not possible for people with restrictive firewalls or with CGNAT.

I agree with you that if you expose the service through the internet, then yes, it's just a DDNS remapping and their costs are tiny, but if you don't it does go through their infra.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 0 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Well, as an application it has a huge attack surface, it's also able to download stuff from internet (e.g., subs) and many people run it on NAS. I run jellyfin in docker, I didn't do a security assessment yet, but for sure it needs volume mounts, not sure about what capabilities it runs with (surely NET_BIND, and I think DAC_READ_SEARCH to avoid file ownership issues with downloaders?). Either way, I would never expose a service like that on the internet.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Oh, I guess different school systems, so that didn't even come to mind to me. At least in my country high school is from 15 to 19, I think lots of people thankfully mature and change after teenage years.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)
  1. Yes
  2. Generally yes, but it depends. If I feel like my intervention can actually be useful, sure. For example, if anybody in my acquaintances would be doing that or be a victim of that. "Intervene" also would most likely be reporting or providing shelter, I am not Batman.

Note that both the answers are independent on whether the stalker is a man or not.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 7 points 3 months ago

Yes, because "men" is such a stringent definition for a hedgemonic class. Half the population on earth, across different social statuses, nationalities, wealth, race, age, and so on. Honestly, claiming this is the "group in power" is absurd.

A completely poor analysis, what there is to reflect on?

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 7 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Ironically that poster is an Israel supporter. By their own logic every Israeli should be victim of default "suspicion" and be treated like an IDF war criminal, since everyone has the "potential" to be one.

Actually, this argument would be even more compelling since Israel does have elections and you can emigrate/renounce to your citizenship, both not possible in case of manhood.

It's bizarre that someone could come up with such a poor argument that ultimately boils down to: "people should be accountable for the actions of other people in the same demographic", without realising there are tons of way you can divide people in demographics.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 16 points 3 months ago (5 children)

What places do you go? My pool is super chill, I have seen all kind of uplifting moments. Maybe certain gyms have a selection bias? I don't know.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 17 points 3 months ago

Precisely. It's completely different from doing that in your group of friends, where confrontation is a way to establish common values, and in an internet cesspool where anyway I am going to be moderated out.

Just yesterday I was reading a great article about how social medias compare to TV when it comes to feeling part of a group. "Calling out" people in such places wouldn't be anything else that virtue signaling (to yourself) to reaffirm your own identity (I stand up to sexism), and at the same time allow those people to reaffirm themselves (I get confronted because I am speaking truth).

Basically it would be at most a performance.

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

So you need a coordinated effort of thousands of people who will get continuously moderated, banned or censored. OK, I admit that it's possible, but I think I'd rather invest my time in other ways...

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 22 points 3 months ago

because at least all men share the potential to act out problematic gender roles

Everyone (literally) has the potential to act out problematic gender roles, women included.

protect other men from female criticism because "they are different"

This sentence is legit incoherent. If a criticism doesn't apply to someone, protecting against said criticism is quite literally preventing discrimination.

If men want to get rid of the collective suspicions

Or maybe we can criticize unfair collective suspicion in the same way summary judgments based on other categories are crticizised. I really can't see how this argument does not lead to racism, sexism, etc. Being a man is not being part of a club, you don't decide to join, you don't subscribe to any value, you don't have a steering committee that decides how "manhood" is by vote. Why tf anybody should be responsible to change a group that they are part of simply for biological reasons?

[–] sudneo@lemm.ee 11 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Several studies also describe the backfire effect, I.e., people getting more entrenched in their position when confronted with opposing arguments. I doubt I can ever succeed where a decade+ of education system failed.

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