I largely agree with you. The Democratic party is a disaster. The evergreen tactic of throwing the coalition under the bus in order tack to the middle for some imagined Reagan Democrat vote that doesn't exist is infuriating and the policy that results is dogshit.
The only part I would argue with is that Old Joe ended up with policy that looked a whole lot more progressive than I thought he ever would. I think he deserves a lot of credit for trying. If he could have defended his policy with the voice of a young modern progressive, people would think much higher of his accomplishments.
But yea, I agree with you.
Having the conversation with my kid that I need them to maintain the ability to pass and to remember to answer to their dead name in order to cross borders was a fuckin bummer, man.
I'm just sayin, it sucked real bad. I can't think of more effective way to drive home to a kid that their country hates them.