sneakypersimmon

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[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 1 points 2 minutes ago

I similarly haven’t received a lot of unsolicited attention in recent years, though it was much more common when I was in my 20s and living in a bigger city.

I chalk it up to my resting bitch face and “get shit done” demeanor I adopt when out in the world now. Literally adopting on air of I don’t have time for this shit. I’m rather short and decently attractive, but maybe my age is starting to show enough to slow down advances.

Similarly not discounting others experiences, especially OP. That sounds awful.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 1 points 21 minutes ago

Again, you’ve taken a shower thought way too literally.

There’s many careers that one builds the cost of prep into the final product. Do you think wedding photographers are only charging for their time on site? No, they build their time editing the photos and paying for equipment and marketing into the cost. Same as sex workers.

No one actually thinks this is a valid way of figuring out cost of living in an area. It’s a shower thought.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 15 points 25 minutes ago

Someone else being happy with their life isn’t a condemnation on yours.

Four kids and a husband sounds like a nightmare to me as well, but the father clearly is happy about it. And that’s ok.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 27 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Librarians do have a union - looks like the largest is American Federation of State, County, and Municipal Employees (AFSCME). I don't know how much protection they really offer though.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 1 points 16 hours ago

People aren't going to stop having kids either.

It's much more feasible to force our employers to give us more workers rights than to keep people from procreating.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 2 points 17 hours ago

You're taking a shower thought way too literally.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 2 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Forcing childless people to have more unscheduled days off because parents get priority on scheduling PTO is unfair to those without kids.

But it isn't parents fault that your employer is being unfair to you. Your employer could just as easily staff more people and allow as much time off for childless people as parents.

But you're not yelling about employers, you're yelling about how parents shouldn't have children.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 5 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

It depends lol

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 1 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

You don't want everyone to have the same access to time off. You want preferential treatment as a childless person. You want parents to be discriminated against for having children.

Your comment history is public.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 2 points 17 hours ago (4 children)

Every person is incapable of never needing a day off of work.

No matter how hard you want to blame parents for your misfortunes, the work balance is ultimately the responsibility of your employer.

You will never rid the world of children and parents.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 2 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

You're right, it's better to attack your fellow workers instead of putting blame where it belongs.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 2 points 17 hours ago (6 children)

You're advocating for all parents to be fired from their jobs because they have children.

You still think you know how things work in the real world?

 

A woman who claims Bill Cosby drugged and raped her in 1972 won a $19.25 million jury award on Monday, decades after first stepping forward as Jane Doe Number 8 in the 2005 lawsuit filed by former Temple University athletics director Andrea Constand against the disgraced comedian.

Jurors found Cosby liable for the sexual assault of an intoxicated woman as well as sexual battery. They awarded plaintiff Donna Motsinger $17.5 million for past mental suffering and $1.75 million for future suffering. In another major finding, they determined Cosby acted with “malice, oppression, or fraud,” opening the door to punitive damages to be decided in a second phase of the trial.

In her testimony and court filings, Motsinger, 84, claimed Cosby befriended her while she was working as a waitress at a popular restaurant in Sausalito, California, called The Trident. She said Cosby later invited her to the recording of his standup act Inside the Mind of Bill Cosby at the Circle Star Theater in nearby San Carlos. She alleged Cosby gave her wine that made her feel sick and then gave her two round white pills she thought were aspirin.

“Next thing she knew, she was going in and out of consciousness,” Motsinger’s lawsuit said. “The last thing Ms. Motsinger recalls were flashes of light. She woke up in her house. with all her clothes off, except her underwear on – no top, no bra, and no pants. She knew she had been drugged and raped by Bill Cosby.”

 

The Heritage Foundation’s latest document, “Saving America by Saving the Family: A Foundation for the Next 250 Years,” was published in January, and its purported goal is to reverse the country’s declining birthrate.

See, if you can’t physically force women to have more babies, which is what abortion restrictions aim to do, you design government policies that pressure women into having more babies.

You cut off opportunities outside the home, you make the public sphere hostile to women’s independence and you create a system where the only viable path left for a woman is dependence on a man for survival. In other words, you drag the country back to a time when women had fewer choices.

 

A 31-year-old Georgia woman has been charged with murder by police who say she took pills to induce an illegal abortion.

If state prosecutors decide to move forward with the murder charge brought by local police against Alexia Moore, her case would be one of the first instances of a woman being charged for terminating a pregnancy in Georgia since it passed a 2019 law banning most abortions.

The arrest warrant charging Moore with murder uses language that echoes the law, saying police determined that Moore had been pregnant beyond six weeks “based on the medical staff’s knowledge that the baby had a beating heart and was struggling to breathe”.

“No one should be criminalized for having an abortion,” Dana Sussman, senior vice-president of the advocacy group Pregnancy Justice said in a statement, calling Moore’s case “an unprecedented murder charge for an alleged abortion”.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.today/post/49632137

“The Bachelorette” is on pause amid Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen’s toxic fallout. The ABC reality show, which was set to premiere on Sunday, March 22, has been pulled from the schedule. The network has not yet shared whether it will air at a later date.

“In light of the newly released video just surfaced today, we have made the decision to not move forward with the new season of ‘The Bachelorette’ at this time, and our focus is on supporting the family,” the statement from a Disney Entertainment Television spokesperson reads.

 

“The Bachelorette” is on pause amid Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen’s toxic fallout. The ABC reality show, which was set to premiere on Sunday, March 22, has been pulled from the schedule. The network has not yet shared whether it will air at a later date.

“In light of the newly released video just surfaced today, we have made the decision to not move forward with the new season of ‘The Bachelorette’ at this time, and our focus is on supporting the family,” the statement from a Disney Entertainment Television spokesperson reads.

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