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Everything from the waist down just clenched up in horror, thanks

I'll grant you that the article is kind of shite, but as someone who is stuck in a house I'd rather be rid of, it resonated with me. I don't like my house.

We were first time buyers and ended up with a bit of a lemon, which we've put a lot of work into but it doesn't make it a house we love. We've been there for 7 years, we tried to move once and COVID fucked it up, and now we're stuck in a city suburb neither of us really want to live in anymore, in a house that we're sick of, with neighbors who are growing increasingly conservative that we would rather see the back of. Despite the fact that we've technically got over 100k equity on our house now thanks to value inflation we can't afford a move because even with a 100k down payment any house we actually want is now 450k+ and our monthly payments with a 7-8% mortgage rate would be 3x what our current payment is.

So like, yay, we have a house and at least that's good, and we're secure because our payments are low! But also, I want to fucking leave this place, I hate it, I hate my neighbors, I hate this state, and yeah, we're fucking stuck because even with all our newfound equity we're still poor af according to the rules of the game and it fucking sucks.

Aerial arts! I started taking lyra classes about two years ago and aerials have become my main AuDHD special interest. I spend probably a quarter of my day doing, watching or thinking about it and am perfectly happy to talk it up to anyone and everyone in an attempt to get them doing it too. Spinning and/or being upside down has become my happy place :)

Just a humble midwestern tea snob 😆

My mom was into True Blood for a little bit when it first came out, probably because she was trying to fill a Buffy-shaped hole in her entertainment and TB was close enough, lol. She bought me the first novel for Christmas one year and I very quickly donated it, it was so fucking bad. She asked me if she could borrow it, got mad when I told her I'd donated it already, and then sad when I told her it would ruin her enjoyment of the show by being complete and utter trash xD

Oh, interesting! I may have to give the series a shot, then - I pretty much hate-read the books, hoping at first that he would get better and then later hoping that someone would just fucking kill him lol

Depends entirely on the tea, but, if black: at home it's usually hot, with a half to a full teaspoon of raw sugar and a splash of milk. At work it's usually just hot and straight, no sugar or milk. If green: hot, sometimes honey and lemon, usually just straight. If herbal: hot or chilled depending on the temp outside, no sugar if hot, a bit of sugar if chilled.

I drink a lot of fuckin tea.

Mom & Pop is a(n American?) colloquialism referring to small, frequently family-owned-and-operated businesses. They may not be as likely to use shady 'I can't believe it's not slave labor' practices, but they frequently have other, very glaring issues such as shitty pay, treating you like an outsider if you're not family, and covering up the bad behavior of anyone who is.

Weed card, it's what I need! Hardly ever - okay, always. But it's not an addiction, cause myyyy doctor gave meeeee, a prescription!

-Weed Card, Garfunkel and Oates

Strawberries, raspberries and boysenberries are not berries. They're accessory fruit. Very berries and power berries don't seem to be a thing, unless you're translating them from another language incorrectly into English. You listed exactly one berry, the blueberry, proving their point that most people actually don't know much about their food. "Colloquial use" has nothing to do with people knowing actual facts about their food, which was the matter under discussion. Further, (anecdotally because I'm at work and can't be arsed to look it up at the moment though the studies have been done) a lot of people have no idea what kind of plant many of these things even grow on, whether tree, bush, vine, etc. They know it's a plant. That's about it. Ignorance about food is at an all time high and modern western society - or at least American society - is highly divorced from the act of food production.

Here's a short list of things that are actually berries: bananas, watermelon, cucumbers, pumpkins, tomatoes, peppers, grapes, oranges and kiwis. Aside from accessory fruits which are not berries, there are also drupes - stone fruit such as cherries, plums, avocados, etc, which are sometimes lumped under the umbrella of berries and sometimes considered distinct.

Opposite - one of the girls got swapped into the professor's body and couldn't use his hands because she didn't know how fingers worked.

I mean, there's support and then there's enabling. Not all things that ND people do are good, either for them or those around them. We as a community don't act like it's ok for Autistic people to go around grabbing women's tits "cause they don't understand social conventions" (though I've absolutely come across this argument before, which infuriated me), why would we act like it's ok for NPD people to manipulate and emotionally abuse those around them "cause it's just the way they are"? The goal is to support them in a way that limits harm: both the harm that comes to them from outside, and the harm they can do to others.