shapis

joined 5 years ago
[–] shapis@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Lame. Took me forever to find a psychiatrist I liked too. And after a few years I realized he was a unironical conspiracist anti semite. So there's that too lol.

[–] shapis@lemmy.ml 38 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

This was forever ago. But basically we both drove to a mall for I think sushi and a movie ?

The conversation during sushi went swell but during the movies I could tell she was sitting farther away from me than she had to.

On the way out I asked her if she wanted me to walk her out and she said nah. I was taken aback it was late at night. And was like. Are you sure ? She said yes so we parted ways.

I remember thinking man I'm not sure what I did wrong. That whole thing usually works. Lol.

Once I got home I messaged that I apologized if I made her feel uncomfortable in anyway and asked her on her end what went so wrong.

She told me during the movie / on the way out she thought I might attempt to kiss her. And she wasn't feeling that way. I thanked her for being honest and that was that.

I wouldn't have tried tho. I was fully aware that things weren't going ideal. But yeah. Thats the story.

[–] shapis@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Weird. Maybe try a different provider? They seem to have biases that might be deep ingrained in them.

[–] shapis@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago

Woo. This is more effective than the pep talks I ask chatgpt to write for me lmao.

Thank u 😄

[–] shapis@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (8 children)

That's fucked they changed their mind. Did they tell you why ?

[–] shapis@lemmy.ml 44 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (6 children)

I've only ever had one date in my life that went bad. I had a feeling I was about to get ghosted so I asked her to like. Lemme know why it went so bad from her pov. It was an interesting conversation.

If they bring it up just be honest with them.

[–] shapis@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Fun match so far. Surprised by how well Bolivia is holding up.

[–] shapis@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

I'm concerned that I'm not sure if you were making up words or not.

[–] shapis@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 years ago

I know right.

[–] shapis@lemmy.ml 15 points 2 years ago (2 children)

It's not even a bad movie. But it's only very tangentially related to the source material.

[–] shapis@lemmy.ml 13 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I feel most of these issues are just due to how small the userbase is.

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