When it is illegal for same-sex couples to marry that it was one the things they miss out on.
It seems then that you were comparing married couples with same-sex couples who were not in a legally recognised life partnership, such as a civil partnership in the UK. Which makes no sense. I think it's safe to assume that the vast majority of people one interacts with on Lemmy will live in a jurisdiction where same-sex life partnerships are legally recognised.
Vatican City
is a backward city-state and is no way representative of contemporary Western democracies.
Would imply what was inaccurate?