potato_wallrus

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[–] potato_wallrus@lemmy.world -1 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

Yeah, the difference in this case is that I'm expected to feel sorry for them just because they have an addiction, and that's probably what infuriates me most tbh. I understand that addiction is a disease, hell I used to be an alcoholic but I never fucked anyone over, the only person I really hurt was myself. Addiction is no excuse for shitty behavior and we shouldn't be made to feel bad for them just because they happen to be addicts. I look at it like this, an addict is just someone who has a problem, but a junkie is someone who makes it everyone else's problem.

[–] potato_wallrus@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (3 children)

My boyfriend's grandma allowed one to stay in their house while waiting on disability until she stole her pain meds, they originally didn't call the cops because they didn't want them to be involved, but this bitch calls the cops and claims that because she gave them some money, she's technically a tenant, and they took her side (and yelled at the grandma in the process, so ACAB) so they're stuck with the selfish bitch until they go through an eviction process It's not that I have a problem with addicts per say, I just lose sympathy when they fuck Innocent people over, especially when the people they fuck over were actively trying to help them. People like them can go off a cliff for all I care.

[–] potato_wallrus@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I kind of expected him to be a scum bag, but this is just straight up fucked. Also the fact that cops gave her back to him multiple times just shows how lazy, crooked, and or just plain stupid they are.

My expectations for him were low, but jesus christ

[–] potato_wallrus@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago

Based booze cruiser fights fascism

[–] potato_wallrus@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Melisa McCarthy

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submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by potato_wallrus@lemmy.world to c/tankiejerk@lemmy.world
[–] potato_wallrus@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

I live in Alabama, I'm well aware of that lol

[–] potato_wallrus@lemmy.world 23 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Smiling friends

[–] potato_wallrus@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

Give me the whole tiddy or give me death

[–] potato_wallrus@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Yeah, I don't let it affect my other relationships, it's just that I don't really have anyone to talk to about this stuff really. I see a therapist, and she's great, I've had more progress with her than anybody else, but after everything that's been happening, it feels like I lost a bunch pf that progress plus she's pretty booked as it is so I can't see her as often as I would like to, I'm also seeing someone and I do open up and talk to them about how I'm feeling, but I tend not to unload everything on them, they're stressed out about enough stuff as it is and O don't want to add to it. Also to clarify, I didn't loan him the money, he stayed at my place didn't pay rent for like half a year (plus he was eating some of my food). I should've kicked him out sooner, but ai was worried about seeming like an asshole. I've always been a doormat.

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Venting (lemmy.world)
submitted 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) by potato_wallrus@lemmy.world to c/mentalhealthsupport@midwest.social
 

I want them to know how I feel, I'm tired of holding it in. People always tell me to let it go, but I just can't, I hate unresolved business. How am I supposed to feel when the very same person who told me to kill myself is now dating a good friend of mine. Everytime I talk to him, I'm brought back to that moment. She says she's sorry and that she regrets everything, but I don't fucking care. She didn't change as far as I'm concerned, ever since she came back everything's been fucked. How am I supposed to feel about my piece of shit former roommate who fucked me out of almost $1500 because he was "too depressed to work" but had no problem e-begging for fucking gas money to go on some dumb ass road trip. Motherfucker I'm depressed, I'm mentally ill, yet I still have to work to eat and keep a fucking roof over OUR head. This same asshole has the fucking nerve to act all high and mighty anytime we disagreed on something. Fuck them, fuck everyone, I'm fucking tired of holding it all in. I don't care if it hurts them to tell them the truth, a part of me wants it to hurt. I want them to know how much I fucking hate them

[–] potato_wallrus@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Not great tbh

 

I was doing good, until I decided to let someone back into my life who hurt me in the past. I was stupid enough to forgive her when she apologized. I thought she changed, but she's just as much of a terrible person as she was in the past. The only reason I even forgave her was because I thought that's what I was supposed to do, but I was an idiot. I hate her and I hate myself because thanks to me letting her back in, she not only fucked me up, but also ruined the lives of some close friends of mine. Between that, and a "friend" who I was renting a room to completely fucked me over. He used his mental health as an excuse to just sit around and do nothing while I worked my ass off and paid all the bills. I put up with it for 6 goddamn months. On top of that, anytime we had any kind of disagreement, he tried to act all high and fucking mighty, like he had some kind of moral high ground. I could care less where he's living now, he can live under a fucking bridge for all I care. I try bringing up my problems to my mother, but all she tells me is "other people have it worse". No shit, I know that. I know my parents love me, and I love them, but that doesn't change the fact that they kind of fucked me up. I love my dad, yet growing up, I was afraid of him. He never hit me, but he did have explosive bursts of anger. I inherited this from him, I've destroyed things over minor inconveniences. Humanity is a fucking disappointment.

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