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[โ€“] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

It's hilarious you assumed where we live, incorrectly. No we're not going to tell you. But maybe don't assume everyone or everymany lives on land stolen from the indigenous folks on turtle island.

[โ€“] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

kinda? Demiboy?

[โ€“] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

They choose minorities because those groups have less power to fight back.

Only if we're not unified ๐Ÿ˜‰

[โ€“] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yes, we weren't implying you or anyone or anymany specific should, just you know, it would be nice if someone or somemany would, not sexually, just as examples. We're pretty ace after all, so it wouldn't be for titillation, for us at least.

We have been on HRT longer than that, maybe 3 or 4 years and been messed around with our levels for a long time. We have been higher than 1000 pmol/L for a while, but our latest doctor maybe brought that down so we don't know, still have to do a test for that.

We started prog about a year in, maybe a bit less, maybe a bit more.

[โ€“] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Ah, okay, thank you for the advice and information.

Yeah, we get that but then it creates a sort of unfortunate situation or catch 22 or something where dysphoric trans femmes feel that they're not normal and they did something wrong. Obviously we can't make other trans femmes without the 'perfect' big and round ones post, but we think it would help a lot not just for dysphoria but to challenge the idea that there's only one type out there.

Same. Cassette Beasts is much better.

Yes and no. It all depends on what people are taught to care about.

Saying something like "I hate your dress", yes, that's bad and doesn't matter because the only person who should care is the person wearing it.

Saying something, however, like "Don't do or say that to me" yes, absolutely should be said and people should respect that.

[โ€“] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (5 children)

It might have messed it up for us, it did accelerate our breast growth, but ours are relatively small and triangular compared to the perfectly round and big ones we have seen other trans femmes have online so it's kind of dysphoria inducing. We started about a year in.

Either that or our genes are bad. Which would not make sense since biologically related folks have perfectly fine ones, but who knows.

 

We keep trying, filling in the form and using the code from the link place and it just keeps telling us that there's an error no matter what we do. Could someone or somemany please look into it? Thanks!

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Species euphoria stories (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/transspecies@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

We were wondering, what gives you species euphoria? It can be either something that happened one time or it can be something that gives you euphoria time and time again.

We'll start: One time we did something nice for someone else and they gave one of us a shiny rock and their deadname.

It gave us so much species euphoria.

What about y'all?

 

So using lemmy via the main web ui is very slow to load, and then sometimes only loads a few elements recently.

Can this be fixed?

 

So a while ago we attempted to edit a fandom page but another editor kept reverting the change because some scientific magazine or something had claimed we don't exist.

Would any of y'all like to help us finding or by providing irrefutable (or at least scientific) evidence that we do exist so we can edit the page safely and if they complain provide links, books etc?

No worries if not, just we hate plural erasure and science that tries to 'prove' we don't exist when we clearly do.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/28783084

How trying to define ourselves or others define us by assigned sex at birth doesn't serve us and is generally oppressive and incorrect, both scientifically and socially.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/28783084

How trying to define ourselves or others define us by assigned sex at birth doesn't serve us and is generally oppressive and incorrect, both scientifically and socially.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/28783084

How trying to define ourselves or others define us by assigned sex at birth doesn't serve us and is generally oppressive and incorrect, both scientifically and socially.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/28783084

How trying to define ourselves or others define us by assigned sex at birth doesn't serve us and is generally oppressive and incorrect, both scientifically and socially.

 

How trying to define ourselves or others define us by assigned sex at birth doesn't serve us and is generally oppressive and incorrect, both scientifically and socially.

 

Great songs!

 

So, we thought about keeping this closed until we had done the posts explaining things. However, we can see it's more important for us to have a place to talk etc. Therefore we are opening it up and will do the posts later.

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Do any of y'all have any advice, tips and tricks on dyeing underarm hair? We are thinking of dyeing it for two different prides and just in general with some manic panic dye as that is apparently deemed to be safe for such things and we were wondering how to do it safely (moreso than just using a safe dye), how long it would last etc.

Any advice, tips and tricks or even links to exhaustive, easy to follow for beginners guides would be useful. Thanks!

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