If a post from a remote user gets removed in a community on lemmy.ml, that removal should also federate back to the user's home instance. At least in theory.
So if you host an instance with no communities, the only moderation you need to do is prevent spam bots or similar from using it.
The load issues are because of users directly connecting to lemmy.ml. Federation isnt using many resources, so its best if users spread out across different instances.
Its the one for 30 euros, Im not seeing any vps for 112. Maybe thats a different type of vps?
Its mostly text so bandwidth shouldnt be a problem.
Can we replace Lemmy.ml with Join-lemmy.org when Lemmy.ml is overloaded/down?
I dont think so, when the site is overloaded then clients cant reach it at all.
Does LemmyNet have any plans on being Kubernetes (or similar horizontal scaling techniques) compatible?
It should be compatible if someone sets it up.
Its better to optimize the code so that all instances benefit.
Deletions are federated. But in a distributed system there is no guarantee that it will be deleted everywhere.
Yes federation mirrors the text content on each instance where it is visible. Images are only hosted on the original instance.
I think its better if you copy one or two good posts a day manually.
FYI your videos here are getting a lot of reports saying they are spam.