Ha, yeah, I get it. “lol they gay” is usually a joke. In this case it is not, as you mentioned:
In Sparta [...] the cropping of the bride’s hair and transvestism likely aimed to transform her temporarily into an adolescent Spartan boy – a less threatening figure to the groom, who probably had made his own transition to adulthood via a close emotional and sexual relationship with an older male
It is just what was up
Yeah it’s like going to North Korea and bad mouthing the leader and then going to prison
It’s shitty that it is that way, but you can’t exactly be shocked or surprised about it.
I do get it. It’s some bullshit, yes.