No it's really OK. Thank you for your concern. I provide all the support I can but when I'm not doing OK (I've had friends who couldn't handle this time of year and ended their own lives...) I'm the shit person for needing my own time.
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I broke up with my partner. Honestly for the best and I'm in a great mood. I somehow seem to find people with the lowest empathy and EQ levels possible whereas I'm very high on both and end up being their 'support' but if I'm not doing OK I'm a shit person.
Working on doing more exercise. Set up a home gym and trying to lose my covid weight. In a great mood and kinda love storms so it's a win/win!
Give me some save-scumming!
I used to run in to a guy at my 'regular' who was with the Office of Police Integrity. He was bitter and angry because his job was in to investigate cops who fucked up or were crooked, and the police union would block it all. He wanted to do the right thing and was blocked at every stage. Hated cops, hated his job...
Yeah I found both Google and MS will arbitrarily act like dicks. Have it all sorted these days but still keeps me on my toes. Interestingly I can't email myself from my work email address because the MS mail service they use fails SPF checks...
All fun and games at the end of the day! :)
The thing most people don't realise is in a dom/sub relationship it's actually the sub who has all the power. They can withdraw consent etc. any time they want Having someone you're in a relationship with directly reporting to you is problematic and most companies would explicitly not permit it.
I'm trying to remember this correctly, but traditionally /home is a symlink of /usr/home. I think that's deprecated and you should now just have /home
I use FreeBSD so used the guide here:
https://www.purplehat.org/?page_id=4
Sadly it is a little outdated and 1 step will fail right now until a new package is committed in to the FreeBSD repo (HTMLPurifier) which was removed as it was PHP7 only for a while. But yeah, have SPF, DKIM and DMARC running too. Took a little fiddling since I technically host for 2 domains but trial and error and all good now.
I've been self-hosting email for 10+years. I can confirm it's a pain in the arse... Harder from a dynamic IP too (since you basically can't get any reputation, or you might get an IP that's banned for 'x' reasons)
Postfix + Dovecot here
Edit: Didn't really give you an opinion. It's doable if you have the time and patience. I work in IT too so I'm pretty good at troubleshooting etc. but sometimes it's a LOT of time fiddling and debugging.
Awesome, thanks for the info!
I have a power plan with static IP (host my own servers) etc.
Will be interesting to see if that gets brought across. If not it looks like Aussie BB can cover those requirements if needed.
For those curious this is also known as a Trident dagger