Icard is actuality the only alternative that can register as a contactless nfc payment that not relying on google/Apple wallet and its perfectly safe. It's an actual bank in Bulgaria and is eu regulated and PCI certified
Not Foss. Kinda of a privacy nightmare as you need to verify your identity and location with actual documents but as already said its not google and is a solid option if you are degoogled.
Davx⁵ has Mac OS caldav carddav server integration so you can sync with it.
https://www.davx5.com/tested-with/calendar-and-contacts-server
On android you can use simple calendar or etar to view calendars and "tasks" or jtxboard for tasks/journals