interrobang

joined 2 years ago

I really, really appreciate this. I've been wondering if any form of t might be a bit of a blunt hammer, in my case.

I don't feel dysphoric about my body, but I used to. I leaned into fitness over covid, I felt more like me without having to femme up for work everyday and it started feeling better. I'm pretty lean now, and with a good tight sports bra and my hair short, I'm passably androgynous.

At least nowadays men bug obvious lesbians less and it's post-#metoo. I grew up in the south, and I never fucking got to forget that I was a girl.

Thank you for talking with me

Word.

This is why I keep putting up our pride flag, if it isn't safe to do that then we are not safe.

[–] interrobang@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The biochemical stuff is a huge part of my interest in t. I'm not dysphoric about most of my feminine features, but my emotions feel like space invaders in my brains most of the time, especially PMS. I just feel such discomfort and shame, being.. shaken like a doll by those feels. I hate it.

I also seem to socialize much more like guys tend to. I've been to one bachelorette party and we all knew it felt wrong lol

I was still straight passing back then, too.. but I am nobodies bachelorette

[–] interrobang@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I am so curious about enbysmell!

I am AFAB and considering really low dose t. I have very, very (weirdly) little body smell and I can hardly stand scented deodorant, I'm wondering if it'll freak me out.

[–] interrobang@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Have you tried lots of moisturizer? Estrogen makes skin more soft and papery from what I've seen, it sure helps me sew and whatnot

I think it's also skin moisture. Since E, my wife feels totally different - her skin is cool, soft and velvety now, it used to feel warm and almost radiate humidity.

That humidity feel definitely helps grip, that's supposedly the reason our skin prunes up in water; better grip!

[–] interrobang@lemmy.blahaj.zone 49 points 1 year ago (1 children)

He's always been a spoiled heir with massive wealth from apartheid and blood gems

How good could his personality ever have been, truly

Hell yes. I'm sick of collaborating in my own long term destruction just so I'm not immediately homeless.

we wouldn’t have to go full communism

That's a feature, not a bug

[–] interrobang@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No, patina is a thin layer of oxidation on top of the actual material from contact with the air.

Rust is corrosion from air + moisture, and causes pitting and flaking. Patina should just sit over the surface, but not distort the thing it's on.

There is more nuance to it, but patina is on top, rust is the actual thing turning into rust

Sugar has a much bigger effect on my wife after starting E.

She ended up quitting sugar all together for a few days, then she could finally 'hear what she was hungry for' (which was ALLLLL the cheese lol).

Bodies are wild

[–] interrobang@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The actual name of the song is BYOB (Bring Your Own Bombs)

Somebody knew

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