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[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 20 points 9 months ago (6 children)

Wanna explain it for my friend who doesn't get it?

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 23 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Our boss was like "I'm sure he's mad but he'll cool off" for way too long lol

We also worked some insane hours across many locations so it wasn't abnormal to not see your office mates for weeks at a time

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 1 points 9 months ago

That's a great article, thanks for the read.

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 55 points 9 months ago (3 children)

This is technically fired, but it's more like quitting. It doesn't perfectly fit this thread but I love telling this story.

A few months into my first real job, the engineers got their raises (not me, I was new). 0%, after record profits, the team busting their ass and working insane hours, and promises of good raises. I think they got some gift cards or something.

One of my coworkers goes back to his desk, packs some stuff, walks to his car, and doesn't come back. He got paid for a full month before they finally fired him. We got a beer after and he was like "oh I don't think I'm gonna go back" in the most Office Space way

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Dumb question, did you fully power down and power up your Deck?

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 6 points 10 months ago (3 children)

https://www.investopedia.com/terms/f/foreign-tax-credit.asp

https://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/f1116.pdf

I thought it was a Form 1116 thing, but I could be wrong for sure. IANAL and haven't yet done foreign taxes so who knows yet

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Can I interest you in a dozen middle eastern street courses?

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 9 points 10 months ago (5 children)

Yeah, it goes up faster than inflating each year, it seems. 126,400 per person or 253k for married I believe this year, which is a pretty fair bit especially considering you deduct the taxes you locally pay off the top first, afaik

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 7 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Do you live abroad? I'm expatting in a few weeks (long planned, not in a pure panic due to Trump) and would love ask a few questions if so!

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Learning the local word for sorry is really handy! I feel you, my partner and I struggle with the same sometimes. Most people everywhere are patient and polite, and want you to love their country!

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Oh shit, you meant not to visit but to relocate to? I think I'd have a different set of answers for longer term; I was thinking for a vacation!

Yeah, lots of LGBT+ culture in Scandinavia, and a fair bit in the rest of western Europe (Paris, London, Zurich come to mind). Though I've spent plenty of time in eastern Asia (and lived near Shanghai), I don't know that scene super well there. I did karaoke with a bunch of gay people in 道頓堀 in Osaka, and it was dope, but not much else.

If you're looking for longer term living outside of NATO, I'd look to some Latin America countries, Oceania, and Switzerland.

If you're looking to just visit, Japan, Scandinavia, most of western Europe are all very easy. A few places I've been are a lot harder language wise, and I don't know that I'd wanna go right to the hard mode that is Shanghai if I hadn't even left the states

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 3 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I've got a few thoughts, as someone also playing on the lowest difficulty setting (cis ~straight white male, america. (Though ex patting in mere weeks, after years!)):

Japan is an incredible place to be a tourist. Learn a few phrases (すみません、ありがとうございます, etc) and a little culture, be respectful, mind your shoes and manners. You'll do great, and there's SO much to see and appreciate. It's a brilliant culture and society, and so different in lots of ways. Very very safe.

Any Scandinavian country is VERY easy to visit as well. English speaking, easy to get to from the states. See how a proper society can function! (I am biased as a soon-to-be-Danish resident)

I'll write more soon, dinner time for me

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