I've got the closest thing to a software engineering job I've ever had and it's similarly miserable. I have a coworker who I really like and mostly the rest are like you describe.
I can't wait to get out of this role and back to having a more normal job. Nowhere near you, but I've worked a bunch of places in the US and none have been like this
I'm still so deep in Blue Prince, hopefully maybe finishing it this weekend?
Gotta clear the schedule for some DOOM next week