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Also those new movies were a lot more fun than they had any right to be.

I have sensory stuff but I always love having a really thin or lightweight wrap on, since I overheat easily and can take it off and put it on.

Which I do! Often!

I cannot describe to you my reaction when he told me that story. It's been 10 years and I'm still stunned.

"Dong" being penis made this even funnier.

"You can show your dong to kids, but heaven help you if you teach them about marijuana!"

There should absolutely be prostate cancer awareness!

I completely agree! Words have power!

If I see that sort of thing, I try and correct it. Gently. It never feels good when you get hit with a generalization meant for someone else, but especially when you dislike that generalization, too.

I still argue, especially when my ADHD meds wear off, and my impulse control goes out the window, but we can all at least try to be better to one another.

"Punching someone in the head can be just as fatal as stabbing."

I'm genuinely surprised people don't know this.

A male friend of mine who confides in me was complaining to me about how there are these 'feminists' talking about 'toxic masculinity.' Apparently he viewed some video where a guy was intentionally conflating masculinity with toxic masculinity. I didn't know that at the time, I was just shocked, because he's the biggest victim of toxic masculinity I know. When I said that, he asked me to explain, and I pointed to the fact that his father burned his sketchbooks (this was the 70s) because art is "for girls." Which is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.

When I explained that toxic masculinity is that, the emphasis to conform to some harmful version of masculinity, he turned on a dime so fast in rage at the asshole who conflated the two.

The thing that hurts my feelings most is when men are taught to forward toxic masculinity that harms them. When they're forged into links in a chain that they would never wield if they knew better.

Well, no. I make sure to always emphasize men's mental health, and I especially love talking about it in the context of Klingons. But... I can't make every month mental health awareness month.

I got to be honest, that really bums me out.

I'm a person with C-PTSD who volunteers with local veterans. I really hammered home mental health awareness month. I mean, I talk about it all the time, but NAMI does some cool stuff during May. I even recall seeing some busses that had NAMI wraps on them talking about it in May!

Eta: I said elsewhere, and I'm saying it again (hope it sinks in), next May I'll try and generate content and memes and stuff. Hearing that some of you didn't see or hear anything during May has really had a massive dampening effect on my day. Ya'll deserve outreach, same as everyone in my meatspace.

Of course it was. There's a subsection of people who want to divide the folks who believe in things like men's mental health, and also pride. You can do both. You should do both. Trying to move mental health month to overlap with pride is agitprop. Trying to make this a pride versus men issue, or a mental health versus men's mental health issue, is coordinated nonsense. Don't let them do that to you.

Advocate for mental health, and men's mental health, every day. Celebrate mental health month, and include your male friends, like I do. But don't let someone try and define men's mental health specifically to overlap with something else, something that right-wing, manosphere assholes will tell you is bad.

Edited to add: I think part of the problem is that folks don't seem to keep these things in their calendars or in their minds, and just react to 'whatever month' when they see image macros. Next year I'll try and post memes about mental health awareness month during May. I'm not as good at advocating online as I am in person- I usually use the internet to unwind and shitpost and pick fights when my meds wear off. I'll try and do better.

If ya'll aren't emphasizing men's mental health, which is friggin epidemic, during the mental health month, it's being done wrong.