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I get real mad when people use ADHD as an excuse to be an inconsiderate bag of dicks.

I prefer to be interacting with several forms of media, yes. But I don't need the sound up on all of them, and if I did, I'd put on my BT headphones and mix the sound levels individually. What an asshole.

I'm ADD as hell and I couldn't have got with someone who played their things loud like that. I can tolerate one audible thing, but multiple?

I'm pure ADHD and it's for sure me in the picture.

I'm now considering getting a tiara. I want to wear it in the bath.

When the state wants you dead, self care is an act of protest.

Before cohabitation I always have a conversation about our living together social contract. What are you willing to take responsibility for?

The last relationship I was in started out with a partner who split things evenly and turned into learned helplessness on his part. It was awful. He did nothing at the end.

The guy I'm with now comes from a relationship where his partner did nothing. We occasionally discuss who should do what, and then get mad at each other because the other person wants to take on too much.

Good looking out! Appreciate it!

Also, anything that adds surreal nonsense is something I support, especially using it on bots.

Welcome aboard!

:: TW- Somewhat graphic discussion of suicide

There's fascinating data that explains that the reason men are more successful is because they suicide in a more violent fashion, and women tend to do things like poisoning.

"Women may be more likely to take others into consideration, and looking at suicide in the context of relationships may give women less incentive to want to die as it will cause others emotional harm. That may also be why they choose less violent methods of suicide to avoid traumatizing those who will grieve their loss."

There are a lot of other reasons why the methods might be different. There are a lot of opinions on it. But of the people I've lost to suicide, a couple of women intentionally overdosed and left a note out where the family could find it indicating where they'd left their body so they didn't have to come collect it themselves, or there was one who locked herself in the bathroom with a note on that door... and of the men it was hanging or a shotgun to the face in the woods behind his house. (Which resulted in the neighbor kids finding his body. Not cool.)

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I fuckin loved spiced coke. I had a flat of the mini cans I got from Sam's Club (don't judge me, we don't have a Costco or a Trader Joes where I live) and every day after I got home from the gym I'd have a can of spiced coke and it was the fuckin best.

But now it's gone and I'm quite upset about it. The orange cream is fine but it's not the spiced. AGH! They made a coke with all my favorite flavors and then ditched it!

I love this detail. I will do either based on the recipe because the boyfriend and I don't eat sour cream (by itself) so either I use that tub up in recipes, or it risks going bad. Same as the buttermilk! I have had a pound cake with sour cream and that was divine.

I will definitely try this out of curiosity- probably later this week. I was told by a girl at my salon that she does her pancakes with cottage cheese, but she didn't have the recipe, and she swore they were heavenly.

I always use real butter in the pan, but I'll be honest, the thing that made me write this post was I was considering trying melted butter in the mix! I'm gettin' desperate here!