Eh, I've heard that before elsewhere, and it's always turned out to mean they only accept agender folks if they're femme enough. I worry that I would, once again, be too masc for a group that ostensibly supports me.
I already feel like the world would be better off without me, and I've already had other groups say I'm the bad kind of agender. Like, I used to say I was a tomboy, but then I got kicked out of the college women's group because its an offensive term?
Yeah, there is sometimes a grain of truth to that sort of thing. I gotta be real careful talking about a lot of my experiences, because I know they sound like right-wing talking points, and I don't want to give them ammo against my side, y'know? It's frustrating, but there are bigger problems that need to be solved first.