In Europe we are paying restocking fees, just not overtly. I have been in the ecommerce business, and know others who have. You just mark up the goods taking into account your returned goods cost.
It's like physical stores adding a the spread cost of shoplifting into the prices.
I also have ADD. Nice combo, no? ;)
You do know that ADHD people also have a very large percentage of substance abusers? Self medication...