elbarto777

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[–] elbarto777@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

You, uh, didn't read OP's post.

[–] elbarto777@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Are belts and watchbands code for some concepts related to mental health? Given the sub we are in, that is.

[–] elbarto777@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Name checks out.

[–] elbarto777@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

And there could be other factors not related to being trans as well.

OP could be ugly, or clingy, or "mean when drunk" etc.

I'm a heterosexual cis man, ugly as fuck, and in my decades of dating, I'd say 90% of my relationships fail after a couple of months. I could have attributed at being a bit overweight, or being brown in a relatively white region, or being an immigrant. But I've seen others with my characteristics succeed where I fail. My odds improved with introspection and willingness to adapt.

OP, if you're still reading the comments, we need more info.

[–] elbarto777@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

The problem is the ghosting. As a cis gendered heterosexual male, I've had my share of ghosting dates, but not the amount OP is talking about (100% of them.)

[–] elbarto777@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Why not?

Again, being naked is something you can control.

I don't mean to derail the conversation. Like I said, I think OP dun goofed.

It's just silly to tell OP "oh don't comment on something the person can't change, like their nakedness!!" C'mon, now. What's next? Wearing ties can't be changed either?

[–] elbarto777@lemmy.world -2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

aspects of their appearance they have control of

Well, the lady has control of being naked, and she could remove her tattoos if she really wanted to. I'm sorry, I know what you're referring to. Commenting on skin color, hair type, body shape, etc.

But if you're going to build an argument about that, being naked is not that.

I'm not defending or supporting OP. I just wanted to mention that.

[–] elbarto777@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] elbarto777@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

We need the slapping batman meme when Robin says "I asked ChatGPT"

[–] elbarto777@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

Why is it stupid if it yields results?

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