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[–] dryfter@lemm.ee 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I don't know if it's necessarily a problem with AI, more of a problem with humans in general.

Hearing ONLY validation and encouragement without pushback regardless of how stupid a person's thinking might be is most likely what creates these issues in my very uneducated mind. It forms a toxically positive echo-chamber.

The same way hearing ONLY criticism and expecting perfection 100% of the time regardless of a person's capabilities or interests created depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation and attempts specifically for me. But I'm learning I'm not the only one with these experiences and the one thing in common is zero validation from caregivers.

I'd be ok with AI if it could be balanced and actually pushback on batshit crazy thinking instead of encouraging it while also able to validate common sense and critical thinking. Right now it's just completely toxic for lonely humans to interact with based on my personal experience. If I wasn't in recovery, I would have believed that AI was all I needed to make my life better because I was (and still am) in a very messed up state of mind from my caregivers, trauma, and addiction.

I'm in my 40s, so I can't imagine younger generations being able to pull away from using it constantly if they're constantly being validated while at the same time enduring generational trauma at the very least from their caregivers.

[–] dryfter@lemm.ee 6 points 3 months ago

Yeah I saw the public broadcasting defunding one. To be honest, I lost track of all the things going on because I've been so focused on Social Security, Medicaid, and HUD because anything that happens to them affects me in some way more than anything else being on disability and in HUD housing.

I imagine once things come up in the Supreme Court we'll see a flurry of activity regardless of their decisions

[–] dryfter@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

St. Upid

I was born and raised as a Catholic, did my time in Catholic school until I graduated high school. Too many years later (more than I care to admit) and several different beliefs later I still automatically don't see the abbreviation and see the "Saint" instead. It was ingrained in my damn DNA.

I was like.... Saint Upid? huh? Then it hit me and I almost busted a gut laughing so hard.

[–] dryfter@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago

No, only states do. Although territories have members in congress, they can't vote on any legislation. They have a government set up by Congress and pretty much oversee themselves with no ability to influence elections or laws in the states. The last territory to become a state was Hawaii. Territories are land grabs, statehood comes after that.

Canada would unfortunately be a land grab for the resources and nothing else for Trump. It would be ravaged and the people of Canada would suffer greatly for it without an ounce of ability to do anything about it.

[–] dryfter@lemm.ee 27 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I don’t think Trump is actually running the white house anymore. Watching the project 2025 checklist, it’s far too complete for Trump to be able to dictate any of it.

What bothers me more is that it's been stuck at 42% complete for what seems like a month. Things have taken a nose dive compared to the first couple of months. Makes me wonder if we're going to go from 42% to 80% with martial law all at once soon.

[–] dryfter@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

The military preys on the poor and desperate. It brain washes those that don't know fully what they are getting involved with.

Exactly this. In 96/97 I was supposed to have gone to college and fucked that whole thing up and had to look for a job. I was having a really hard time trying to find a job and thought about the military.

Out of the blue I got a phone call from one of the military recruitment centers (you're lucky I remember this at all, let alone what branch) telling me about military service since I had turned 18. I told them I was hearing impaired and wear hearing aids as well as legally blind in one eye. I was told I was not a good candidate and would be denied despite my willingness to take the offer since I couldn't find a job fresh out of high school.

This comment connected this memory of that call and the Iraq War in a way I hadn't thought of before -- I no doubt know now that if I had been accepted into the military I would have gone to Iraq in 2003. At this moment, I am grateful that I have an unusually heavy burden of medical issues when I normally don't find much to be positive about in life.

Thank you for this unintentional reminder.

[–] dryfter@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] dryfter@lemm.ee 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)

So right now I'm not in a financial situation that I can even possibly think about donating.

My general issue with FOSS is the guilt trip I go on when devs plead for donations -- that's MY issue, not any of the dev teams -- but it plays a part in not using FOSS as much as I would like. I don't want to sell my soul, but that's about all I have to give right now so free ad-supported services and software are where I tend to lean to these days.

However, I am trying to put as much focus on supporting less shitty humans and buy locally whenever I can now. I didn't realize the views of the devs of Lemmy until a few days ago and I'm a little concerned to be even using Lemmy as a whole as it shows some level of tacit support for the devs and their beliefs. If they weren't open about it, obviously this wouldn't be an issue but since it's out in public it's an issue.

I swear I have a point to all this....

Is Lemmy funded just by direct contributions from users or do instances take extra money from their donations and funnel it down to the main project?

If anyone is familiar with the various 12 Step programs, this is pretty much how those main programs get funded. The local meetings take donations that pay for the rent and any other expenses and then donate left over funds to the main service organization while keeping a reserve for emergencies.

If I were in the position to donate, I would feel much better donating to Lemmy.ee rather than the main project considering their views on certain political issues. I would not be directly donating, but if the instance donated extra funds I might be ok with that. It just feels different for some reason.

[–] dryfter@lemm.ee 30 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (5 children)

Trump has said that although he was “confirmed at a Presbyterian church as a child, I now consider myself to be a non-denominational Christian.”

Uhhhh....he's not even Catholic? That's kinda a prerequisite for THE LEADER OF THE CATHOLIC CHURCH!

He's completely trolling, right? I mean it's gotta be cover for something happening that he wants to distract people from. He can't be that stupid that to think he can actually be Pope......can he?

[–] dryfter@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago

Yeah I have the AirPods Pro and have tried out the transparency feature, specifically because Apple has been floating the idea around that these could technically act as hearing aids and I'm looking for alternatives that might be cheaper now that I'm on disability.

It reminds me of when hearing aids first came out when I was a kid, only not quite as good. But you get the idea with the frequencies and also background noise. Go into a loud coffee shop with them on and try to carrying on a conversation with someone only using the transparency feature.

For someone with slightly declining hearing it might be ok. For me I have mild-to-moderate hearing loss and I have to use an actual hearing aid, not a hearing device which is what all these "hearing aids" that are cheap are. I have to order them through an audiologist and they are not cheap and barely covered by insurance (most of which won't cover them if you don't use THEIR cheaper brand). But hey, at least they're kinda covered now. For 40 years or so of my life it was all $4,000 - $6,000 out-of-pocket every 5-7 years depending on how long they lasted and if they could be repaired.

[–] dryfter@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago

So it's the plague's empty toilet paper section only store-wide? Great......

[–] dryfter@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I wear hearing aids and air dryers annoy the hell out of me because they're so loud. Almost as much as leaf blowers annoy me.

Hearing aids don't have the ability to filter noises so it's like plugging a microphone into headphones and trying to carry on conversations. Mine can now reduce loud noises a little bit so they don't damage my already horrible hearing further but that wasn't the case when I had them as a kid and air dryers started getting more popular, that shit hurt.

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