cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/22468079

!conlang_ua@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Uá Lasín

khóm óa saua khúu Lémi si Uá :)

Уá си́них

хóм óа сауа ху́у Лэ́ми си Уá :)

English

welcome to the Lemmy community about Uá :)

!conlang_ua@lemmy.blahaj.zone

name of language: uá

name meaning: speech, language, talk

writing system: latin, cyrillic (recently added)

there are 9 sounds in total

“a” - like father

“e” like bed

“i” like in “see”

“o” like in “store”

“u” like in “moon”

n “New”

s “Save”

kh, like in “Hat”

“m” - “Money”

Accent means the syllable is drawn out slightly/more emphasis

á - not, no

ae - everything

oé - animal

aí - reptile

uá - speech, talk

óa - good

íe - bad

khéen - using

khái - disgusting

ian - person

iasía - mirror, reflection

iéo - yellow, green

o - to hold, have

kháa - fish

khána - noise

khóm - come

khási - plant

khén - can, possible

akhú - raccoon

khíi - fruit, vegetable

khín - also

khísi - piece, cut

khíen - rock

khó - goop, paste, powder

khon - air, spirit

khúe - color

khúu - group

khué - ear, to hear

áan - to steal

ákhe - to sleep or rest

áso - blue, green

auá - head, leader

ékho - block/square

én - clothing, cloth

ée - cold, ice

séi - fire, hot

úi - big

íi - small

ókhu - mouth, to eat

ina - line

íu - paper

óie - red

ón - is, at, exist

úkha - hand

úkhin - see, eye

úna - hole

na - land

nana - parent

néi - woman

níe - man

nókhi - dead

ónsi - back

nún - moon

nusi - silly, play

núe - many

nákha - number

nasa - strange

nasin - way

nena - bump, mountain

ni - me

khí - this

nimi - name

nókha - foot

óin - love

ona - it

óen - open

ákha - break

nái - do

aía - stick

án - food

ána - give

si - of

síin - feel

síeia - black

síi - end

sisi - bug

okha - near

ókhi - container

sána - same

séo - skin

séne - what

séui - high

siéo - body

síkhe - circle

sin - new

khía - you

khísi - face

síkheén - picture

sona - know

súno - sun

súa - table

súi - sweet

san - from

sáso - but

saua - to

séo - water

sénkho - time

óno - house

sú - two

únkha - sex

úsa - mouth

úsaa - fight

uáo - white

uán - one

uasó - bird

uaua - strong

uékha - away

uíne - want

[DO NOT READ IF YOU’RE SENSITIVE TO DISCRIMINATION, EMOTIONAL ABUSE/BULLYING, OR TO START AN ARGUMENT. I JUST NEEDED TO RANT.]

my friend for 4 years is someone who i had to cut contact with. they’ve completely discarded me, perhaps before i cut contact altogether and won’t even look nor talk to me.

they are definitely something else, and i should probably feel good about that but it kind of hurts. part of the reason why seems to be because i’m an autistic woman, as she makes fun of autistic people and views them as lesser despite using autism as an excuse to be “stimmy”.

she also used to do the “don’t leave me for these other people! they don’t understand you like i do” thing. for years she convinced me that most everyone is ableist and evil and that i would never be good enough.

she convinced me it’s normal to treat people badly when you wanted to “mold” them into the person you wanted them to be, and it wasn’t until sometime last year that i realized this behavior was harmful.

she started treating my childhood friend badly too, and i had enough and we both cut off contact with her.

she, as of now, only talks to and hangs out with men and completely ignores women unless she wants a favour from them.

she also only hangs out with straight women because not only are they dating/hanging out with/romantically involved with “cool guys”, but they’re less likely to be “obsessed with her”. (last year, she didn’t hang out with lesbians because she thought they all were attracted to her and “lesbians aren’t my type”.)

her views are a shame because i’m autistic and a lesbian who somehow had feelings for her in the first year or so i met her.

she has some sort of pyramid, where straight men are at the top and autistic people are at the bottom, even worse if they’re autistic women because women are “dramatic b*tches”

now, rather than being mean towards women (specifically autistic women like me) she doesn’t even talk to them, which i guess is improvement, but i needed to rant.

someone i long since cut contact with due to abusive behavior said they don’t care about other people’s rights or respect for them?

they said they don’t care if trump ruins the us (despite being american), that they don’t care about the discrimination and social disadvantages faced by minorities (they are black, bisexual too[?])

and they always say “i don’t know and i don’t care” when someone asks them something. they also talk about how bad it is to hate “illegals” (which i agree with) but says she doesn’t care ahout illegal hatred too??

some straight guy i was friends with was obsessed with me. he only cared if i liked men and had a bf for some reason, and would ignore that i liked women. he would act like i was straight and that if i dated women, that just meant i was single and obviously interested in him.

mi meli li olin e meli. mi kama sona e toki pona en mi toki mute e ni lon tenpo pini taso mi toki ala lon tenpo ni. mi wile toki lon tenpo sin 😊

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/22189318

(figured more people would give advice/relate because it’s a lesbian community [“the idk how women like men romantically” part] and also because i don’t see any comments/nor do i think the other community i posted in was good for breakup advice/rants.)

(im going to say that im a lesbian, first off, and maybe i just feel this way about relationships with men because i’m in a bad spot, or in other words, pissed.)

part of the reason i broke up with my boyfriend of almost 3 years was because i figured out im a lesbian and couldn’t see myself dating nor attracted to a man.

the other part? he wasn’t there for me as of recent.

he was pansexual and i was a gay/bi trans guy. i met him through a friend, and he lost contact with the friend sometime after he met me and only we talked (our only mutual friend after that was some VERY controversial guy from tiktok but due to said controversy, we stopped being in contact with him and he blocked us).

a lot of the new friends we made on his discord server started to make silly jokes about us, like “get a room you two!” or “are you sure you guys aren’t dating?” it was very casual, i had feelings for him so i was just like “ if he wants to 🤷‍♀️” and he replied with “yeah ok why not :)”

so after that, we were a couple. we talked a lot as friends, we talked a lot as boyfriends. then i got a girlfriend (the deal was that we could date if we knew about the people, and he knew about my gf). we broke up the first time and she acted really cruel (saying i abused/assaulted her, either acted this way because i was a guy or because i was trans. maybe both). this made me feel terrible for MONTHS due to having bad-ish attachment issues.

i detransitioned after that, since the very thought of being a man reminded me of our relationship/breakup.

he, however, was there for me during it. at least, when he could be.

there would be periods that would last several weeks where i would hear nothing from him. even when i would see he read my messages and posted on social media, he would not respond to my messages. ever.

then he would be like, “sorry, i was at work” or “sorry, i was staying at someone’s house for a while”. i was quite forgiving and was honestly just worried about him.

then, it happened more frequently, again and again. he would hardly say he loved me or show any affection. my “friend” told me this was normal in relationships and thought i was crazy for thinking otherwise.

sometimes, he would say he loved me and actually be there for me, but he recently started leaving me on read again. i broke up with him and decided i was a lesbian since i kind of lost feelings and couldn’t see myself with a man or even attracted to one.

[so, im still kind of pissed at him, confused about my attraction a little, and at a rocky relationship with my “friend” and girlfriend.]

(sorry, mods, ik i’m talking about a straight relationship but im a lesbian now so im posting here)

i know my ex probably doesn’t care, he ghosted me and never included me on anything, from a list of people he appreciates to never making gifts for me and hardly ever spending time with me.

there was a time he was romantic with me, he showed me affection and cared about me, but it later started to feel like we were acquaintances with some romantic aspects (the occasional “i love you” and being friendly). there was a time where he would never show any affection for me, and though i’d be fine with him not saying he loved me, especially not every 2 seconds (i just wanted once per day), it felt more like we were friends and there was no other indication of intimacy/romantic feelings.

he never even told people about me and acted as if he was single when a “cute guy” would ask. he would only post about attractive fictional/irl men (as in celebrities), so when i told my friends, they suspected (obv we don’t know for sure) that he might have thought he liked girls and continued to date me as a girl (he was pan) but then realized he might be gay that’s why he ghosted me. (that doesn’t make it right, just saying). i can’t talk to him at all, whether it’s romantic messages or an official breakup text, i tried talking to him about the “ghosting” several times but he just does it again. i asked him again but i can’t talk to him because he doesn’t respond. i tried getting some other socials from him, even his number, but he acted a little odd about both suggestions and said no thanks.

he keeps saying that somehow all of his socials don’t work, even though i see him post, and he reads my messages but doesn’t respond. it’s weird, i feel like i was done dirty and i feel upset, but as a lesbian now, I wouldn’t say im attracted to him either.