drbollocks

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[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 months ago

i actually did break up with her last year because she thought i didn’t care about her. she then said i broke up with her because i’m a horrible person and said i assaulted her.

then, after a year, she apologized profusely and said she can and has changed.

anyway, i’ve tried starting a convo on the phone and it starts out flirty but then it’s just her talking about her interests and hot guys (which i don’t find interesting as im a lesbian 😅)

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 months ago (2 children)

no, not really, to be honest.

i dated her bc she paid attention to me and treated me right. we’d talk about our interests, she’d say she liked my interests and that my autistic ramblings are cute

she would sometimes talk abt movies or video games, i’d also take an interest in them.

we would pick out stuff that reminded us of our relationship

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (3 children)

she never offers to play video games w me, I’ve tried talking to her abt getting into them and she just doesn’t socialize :(

plus she’s obsessed with guys and has love notes about (male actors or ai men, i would assume) in her notes and when i flirtatiously ask who she’s talking about, she acts guilty and says she can’t tell me ??

she says one of them is her bf and makes sexual comments about him, also says he got her pregnant

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 months ago (4 children)

idk, she seems to give her other partner attention and plays the games w her. they have the same opinions and interests so even tho my gf said she likes my interests, she never is actually interested in what i like :( only what she does

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 5 months ago

if no one sees this, try an advice community or an lgbt one (bisexual, lgbtq+, etc). like i said but i think u deleted it, he may not treat u like his other friends because he doesn’t view you as a friend ?

he seems to like u but idk if it’s platonic or not

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 months ago

hmm… is it possible he flirts with all his friends but doesn’t flirt with you because he doesn’t view you as a friend ?

just speculation, he seems to like you, but it might be in a different way than a friendship way from all i see in this post

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