I have not played it, but people rave about The Outer Wilds and it sounds like it fits your needs.
It's not at all my thing, but search the term "walking simulator" to find stuff like that.
Have you tried some of the games you're talking about on the "story" difficulty modes? Most have moved to calling it something like that instead of "easy", and I'm at the opposite extreme, but a lot of them are designed to let you experience the world and story without the pressures of combat.
If you have access to a switch, Mario Odyssey or Kirby and the Forgotten Land have some "combat" but you can skip a lot of it, and they're made to be beatable by kids. Other 3D platformers exist in similar veins as well.
The message was added later.
They didn't lower the performance of the device. They improved the performance for the devices affected. Without lowering the peak clocks the system thought it could handle, the device didn't do better. It hard crashed and shut the system off, presumably losing portions of whatever it was doing in the process.
I personally would prefer Apple (and everyone else) make slightly more detailed update descriptions available on a separate channel, but the main update notes should be just broad strokes IMO. Regardless, yes, the notification they eventually added was a good idea that added value. I just don't think portraying it as anything other than "something that didn't occur to them, because literally no one else did anything like it either" is responsible at all.
People still reference this nonsense and the suits that should have the attorneys involved disciplined for frivolous time wasting as "Apple is trying to force you to buy new phones" when their old devices consistently maintain their resale value far better than the rest of the field and the very obvious intent of this specific action was strictly beneficial to their customers. It would have been slightly more beneficial to do the "your battery doesn't work" message sooner, but you'd have ended up with just as much manufactured outrage if they were slightly too inclusive in who got that message.