I'd advise against using aitsu unless it's in an informal setting with friends. この人/その人/あの人 are the normal level of formality and are commonly used (lit. 'this person', 'that person', 'that person over there').
If you wanted to be extra polite you could always go with この方/その方/あの方 (gender neutral equivalent of 'this/that lady/gentleman).
Didn't we defed from Blahaj specifically because they kept accusing us of faking being queer?