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It sorta sounds like she passed away, but could also not be that. I dunno.

Oh that I fully agree with. I believe in this particular case he wasn't talking about complaints of sexual violence, but just sex in general. I personally have a huge aversion to media depicting sexual assault, and I avoid watching most shows that have it, even if it's "important for the story" or "it's really good despite that".

Since I like anime/manga a lot, I'll use examples there, but I won't watch/read Berserk, Goblin Slayer, and DanDanDan, and I have a huge issue with how Rose is treated by the original Full Metal Alchemist anime series. The last especially because it wasn't by the original author making the choice, by tv execs deciding it made better drama or something. There are lots of other reasons I prefer Brotherhood over the first anime, but the rape of Rose is definitely a significant one.

Weatern media is a bit harder for me to pull out examples I would have maybe watched but avoided because of this, but I guess I probably won't ever watch A Clockwork Orange and I didn't feel like watching Jessica Jones for those reasons. I've never followed Game of Thrones deeply either, so until looking up this quote I wasn't quite aware sexual violence played a role( I think I suspected it, but heard more about red wedding etc). I was putting off watching it then everyones reaction to the last season dropped my interest, so I can't claim sexual violence was the reason I haven't seen it.

Iirc George R.R. Martin has a similar reaction when people complained about the amount of sex in Game of Thrones. A telegraph article that immediately asked me to login said that he was

always astonished that there's always so much more controversy about the sex than about the violence," and that this reaction "says something about us that isn't necessarily a good thing to say"

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I turned em off when my boss at the time noticed I was always playing FFXIV. I wasn't always actually playing, I used to leave it open almost all the time. Why was my boss and I in the same discord? This was early COVID and we used a discord to shoot the shit. Also almost all of us gamed, including said boss, and I probably wouldn't have really gotten in trouble anyway, but I just explained I leave it open a lot and he accepted that without qualm.

ALSHUALLY, 4WD drifts are less oversteered/less doublelaney than RWD (I actually don't know if this is true, I'm just repeating what I understood of it from Initial D).

Not really a waste if it's the entertainment you enjoy the most. I'm not sure what you envision as gaming, but there are all types. Some are violence and conflict, but some are stories, some are just cooperative, some are puzzles.

Do you view tv, reading, radio, podcasts as all waste of time? Do you think all entertainment is a waste of time? If so you're at least ideologically consistent, but I disagree and think humans need entertainment in their lives, for stress release etc. Different people will enjoy different entertainment, and with the caveat of it not harming other people, I don't think it should be subject to gatekeeping.

Or or, the fighting mongooses! That's a cool name!

That's somewhat incorrect. Their stingers have barbs that get stuck in skin and the like and pull out their organs when they try to extract, but that was because it evolved to pierce carapace, not skin. They can sting other insects without dying.

Also, as someone else pointed out, some bees, like bumblebees and carpenter bees,have smooth stingers that do not get stuck in skin.

Sure. I do have some benefits that help, like a WFH schedule, but even on the work in office days I can do games that don't require a ton of time, like a few Monster Hunter hunts (3-12 mins a hunt) or a few Warframe missions, but thats usually because I don't cook those days, don't exercise,and I have no kids and don't really do other entertainment except reading, podcasts and some of those I do while gaming. When I read I often don't game same day.

I used to game more, but had less sleep, so I do less in work from office days. WFH days I get much more time (2-2.5 hours not spent driving/getting ready), plus I can sometimes play less intense games while working, on short breaks, during lunch, etc. I do usually exercise and cook those days, but even then there's time. I don't go out often except for the exercise though.

People still will, because lots of people spoil, some like watching streaming etc. When new stuff comes out and I'm not ready to start it, it often also involves stop visiting certain communities, discords, etc.

Some people just need to vent to coworkers about mild shit. They do care about bullying, at least some, but they can still vent. If they aren't taking it out on the students, not punishing them or complaining to parents, it's perfectly fine to vent to coworkers.

I do IT work and I vent about customers, but I still love helping people, and I don't let anything I find weird or annoying about them affect my level of service. Just yesterday I was chatting with my coworker about people asking us to shortcut minor issues (reducing a two click process to one click). It seems minor to us, and seems like a waste of time, but if they do that process 600 times a day that's 600 clicks instead of 1200. So we grumble to ourselves but we still do it.