bunitor

joined 11 months ago
[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 5 points 2 days ago (3 children)

you sound exactly like a rabidly ableist neurotypical when you hate yourself for being autistic

[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 2 points 1 week ago

you sound like a coworker of mine that said he doesn't go to the ophthalmologist bc glasses are a scam

[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

acabei de sair mas deixei uma bandeirinha da bahia e uma de minas

[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 3 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

tô fazendo uma bandeirinha da bahia logo abaixo da bandeira do brasil

[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

honest advice: it's fine to ask for help online, but not putting any effort into solving your own problems before you do is disrespectful

[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

you can do this in pretty much any language. have you tried anything and need help or you're just asking us to do your homework for you?

[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

that's cheating

(also, it won't work on systems without curl installed)

[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

obrigado <3. minha vida com minha esposa está muito feliz

[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 2 points 1 month ago (3 children)

10 anos de namoro, casado há 3 anos

[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 1 points 1 month ago

it's a really important misconception, though. disabilities and disorders are not illnesses and should never be treated as such

[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

this is the correct answer, as much as people here don't like it. the only reason neurotypical people are typical is that they're fit as workers in a class society. everyone has limitations, including neurotypicals, but our limitations make us misfit to a class society. we're not as able to output work consistently 40h per week and do what we're told without being told it

[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

they're not illnesses and that's not even a controversial statement. no mental health professional worth their salt would call autism or adhd illnesses

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submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by bunitor@lemmy.eco.br to c/brasil@lemmy.eco.br
 

alguém mais sente isso ou sou só eu?

edit: é possível que tenha a ver com o /c/linux@lemmy.ml porque eu fui entrar só nessa comunidade e ela demorou uma vida pra abrir também

 

eu fui testar o old lemmy esses dias e percebi que, no all (que é a listagem padrão do old lemmy) ele mostra conteúdo marcado como nsfw explicitamente. e não demora muito pra aparecer: na imagem que eu mandei, não precisa nem descer a página. não tem como remover isso na configuração. o melhor que dá pra fazer é mudar a listagem pra local ou subscribed

só um aviso pra quem por um acaso queira abrir o old lemmy no trabalho não ser demitido

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submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by bunitor@lemmy.eco.br to c/autisticandadhd@lemmy.world
 

psychiatrist looked at the neuropsychologic evaluation results of autism+adhd and was not convinced. not that there isn't anything going on, but he thinks my case isn't as conclusive as the results claim it to be and i'm still open to be diagnosed with maybe other kind of personality disorder (perhaps ocd). he's not discarding autism either, he's just adding other possibilities

(he's pretty sure about the adhd, though)

not sure what to think of it, and also not sure if i should stay here

 

hello

just got my neuropsychological evaluation results:

  • level 1 asd
  • turbo adhd
  • eating disorder (more specifically, pica syndrome)

also a bunch of other things that aren't disorders themselves (neuroticism is the only one i can remember)

honestly, the primary feeling to me coming out of this diagnosis is "it's not my fault i'm a total mess". i thought the asd diagnosis would be more validating, but the fact that i'm in the 99 percentile in a lot of aspects of adhd really validates how i felt about this shit being really hard for me but easy for other people. it really flipped my perspective from "jfc i can't get my shit together" to "holy shit, how am i still alive and able to earn a living while living 1000 miles away from my family??"

i'm not gonna let this justifying not even trying to be better, but it makes me more assured that i am really trying my best, that failures will happen, and that i should be kind to myself and honest about my limitations

also, i bought a dishwasher and my depression has been cured. why wasn't i told about this before?

anyway, hello

 

i'm seriously considering permanently abandoning laptops in favor of tablets. i spent a day working on my wife's tablet today and it was fine enough for when you're on the go that the small screen isn't too much of an issue. plus, you get an extended battery life, no noise, more comfort carrying it around, and the best of all, for much less money

the biggest downside is that, since tablets are technically embedded devices, they're much more locked up and you basically have no access to the system with the stock rom

so im looking for a cheap tablet ($100-$200), around 10 inches, that i can easily (or at least reliably) install linux to. any recommendations?

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by bunitor@lemmy.eco.br to c/adhd@lemmy.world
 

my new psychiatrist gradually took me off of ritalin+venlafaxin and introduced bupropion, first 150mg while cutting the venlafaxin dosage in half, and now 300mg of bup alone, completely removing venlafaxin

it's been 4 days i think since this last update and it's been fucking rough. i'm not sure if it's just the venlafaxin withdrawal or if the bupropion is contributing to it, but i feel like shit, i'm getting constant brain zaps unless i remain completely still with as little stimulation as possible, been having nightmares every single day, am extremely irritable and im not even sure the bupropion is even helping at all

is anyone else under the same treatment? it feels like a fringe/experimental treatment, but id like to confirm this from other adhders

thanks

edit: thank you so much for all the answers! they helped me to calm down and reassured me a bit. the symptoms are starting to wear off, so that also halped.

very late update: the venlafaxin withdrawal waned off and now i'm feeling so much better than before. this is working way better than ritalin

 

(this post obviously assumes the recent removal of russian devs due to sanctions is bad; no need to comment if you disagree)

a lot of people i know are considering jumping ship to some bsd after the recent MAINTAINERS debacle, but i'm skeptical it would make any difference. afaik, they're just as us-centric as linux if not more (it's the berkeley software distribution, after all). also, my biggest gripe about the bsds and the main reason i've never had any interest in them is their permissive licensing. permissive licenses suck

would there be any difference wrt sanctions in the bsds or moving away from linux to *bsd bc of that would be pointless?

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by bunitor@lemmy.eco.br to c/cpp@programming.dev
 

i've been playing with cppfront for a few minutes now and it's been a surprisingly pleasant experience so far. i'm tempted to try it out at work to see what happens, but i wanna know if anyone tried to use it in production and what your experiences are

for those who haven't heard of it, cppfront is a cpp2 to c++ compiler, a bit like coffeescript for js. cpp2 is herb sutter's proposal of a new and cleaner c++ syntax with better ergonomics, better orthogonality, and better defaults

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by bunitor@lemmy.eco.br to c/emacs@lemmy.ml
 

será que não temos pessoas suficientes aqui pra marcar um encontro emacs no brasil? acho que não precisaria nem ser na mesma cidade que todo mundo mora, eu mesmo moro no rio e estaria disposto a ir pra são paulo ou bh, já que são umas 8h de viagem e uns 200 reais ida e volta.

(edit: mods, i'm posting this bc i couldn't find any rules restricting the posts to english only, but i'll remove this post if you're not comfortable with a non-english post)

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