blight

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[–] blight@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I could picture the scenario going 2 main ways:

  1. Shrug. Don't engage. Let this entire exchange stay between me and him, having no immediate effect on anyone else there. The guy will think I am at least nEuTrAL to transphobia, but I will have more chances to confront him.
  2. Try to confront him, most likely turning into a big heated argument, when everyone was just there to grill. I don't think X would be particularly happy to then return and find they were being transvestigated.

You can only use option 1 so many times, but in this particular situation (also otherwise kind of weird) I think it made sense. Obviously if this was an organizational setting, it should be option 2 always.

[–] blight@hexbear.net 3 points 2 years ago

i'm lowkey still mad that katniss chose peeta

[–] blight@hexbear.net 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] blight@hexbear.net 10 points 2 years ago (2 children)

CW: transphobiaSo I was in a group setting, and as soon as X left for a brief moment, a guy whispered to me "is X a t-slur?" I scream internally but can only muster a shrug externally (LIB I know). He shuts up for a while and shortly after just leaves without a reason. I'm pretty sure everyone there was cis, but the mere suspicion of someone being trans seemed to have put him in full trans panic mode. He's obviously unhinged, but I feel the need to self crit for even appearing to him as a potential peer. desolate

[–] blight@hexbear.net 8 points 2 years ago

At some point you just gotta face that if people feel that their treats would be threatened, they will do any and all mental gymnastics to justify anything.

[–] blight@hexbear.net 16 points 2 years ago

I can't believe you would do a class reductionism like this liberty-weeping

[–] blight@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago

if this doesn't make you smile brighter than any other lyrics, i don't know what will

[–] blight@hexbear.net 11 points 2 years ago

if they weren't an antisemite, why would someone bother making a documentary about their antisemitism? smuglord

[–] blight@hexbear.net 13 points 2 years ago (5 children)

we desperately need a music AI that replaces vocals with nonsense because all lyrics are cringe

[–] blight@hexbear.net 11 points 2 years ago
[–] blight@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago

yesterday i was crossing the road at a proper marked crossing, the car keeps going fast and narrowly missing me, whereupon i slow down, flip him off, and continue walking. he got so mad he turned around and stopped to shout something at me (couldn't hear, was using headphones)

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