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[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I don't cope with heated spaces very well at all, because they get stuffy, and send me to sleep. So I tend to rely heavily on my throw over/shawl!

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (21 children)

I don't get it. Seeing a dick gives you psychic damage? Do straight women take damage too or is it only straight men?

If feels kinda homophobic tbh...

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago

I look forward to inertial scrolling!

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 32 points 1 month ago (3 children)

If the only significance of 240 sterlings is that it weighs a pound, then it seems likely the pound would have been a pound, whatever number of sterlings it happened to be...

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago

Playing nude and modding seem like two different things :P

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 month ago

So, a few years back, when my kid was 13 or so, I used to send them memes over discord. This was 6 or 7 years ago now. And I thought, I'm a cool mum, 'cause I use discord to talk to my kid, and I send them memes.

And one day, I asked my kid if I'm one of the cool parents, 'cause I send them memes, and they said "You send me old memes". Their friends thought I was cool but my kid? Nah, not so much...

In all seriousness though, my kid is 20 now, and I have a great relationship with them. Don't read too much in to it. I don't think there's any winning with young teens and pre teens. You'll never be cool in their eyes, and I think we just have to find our peace with that :)

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 month ago

PieFed has a community migration feature. Basically, it can take a remote community and turn it in to a local community. The main advantage of that is that all of the old content will now be properly attached to the new community so it's not lost, but it's imperfect, because the old content doesn't automatically refederate out to show the new group and it doesn't bring subscribers over

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I haven't even read the article, but the answer is either "no" or "almost certainly not" because otherwise the headline would be "Asteroid 2024 YR4 will hit the moon!"

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

The format you want is !communityname @ instance.tld

So !eurographicnovels@piefed.social

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Make sure you make a sticky post in the old community with the new address before lemm.ee shuts down. That way it will stick at the top of folks feeds, even after the instance is down, and people who find the old community will be able to tell at a glance what the new address is

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

To be fair, it says "a" solution, not "the" solution :P

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Ok, let me give you another produce perspective.

I had breast augmentation and it's been a huge source of joy.

But something else that's a source of joy for me is seeing the goofy smile of joy on a trans guys face, when he shares a photo of the first time he went swimming topless after top surgery.

You don't need to assume talking about the things you want will make other folk unhappy just because they don't want it. Play it by ear and respect people's boundaries if they do express discomfort and you'll be fine.

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