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[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 months ago

And there's Nik Dimopoulos, the gay guy that lived next to a queer bookshop. Police broke in to his apartment, failed to identify themselves and then fractured his arm so bad that bone in his upper arm was broken in to multiple pieces. And he wasn't the guy they were looking for....

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 months ago (2 children)

If only I could give you mine!

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 months ago

That's because from a mastodon perspective, that's what they are!

They're basically the same thing as gup.pe groups to them

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 months ago

She's transphobic, misogynistic and appealing to reverse racism. She's just a bigot

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 months ago

Hey, I'm not a grandma yet!

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 35 points 3 months ago (2 children)

You are the only moderator of both communities you moderate, so it sounds like a display bug

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 months ago

did imply that feddit.uk admins were slow to react and did not see this as priority.

That's an accurate summary of my claims. No part of that suggests transphobia however.

who described your statement as mischaracterization.

Likely because said admin knew they were talking about it as a team and believed they were addressing my questions. They just neglected to tell me that part, and just stopped responding to me.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 months ago

You are absolutely welcome to maintain an account on another instance and here if you want to have the option of having those discussions. And I don't mean that in a "Well, there's the door" way. What I'm trying to say is that if you don't want to have the types of conversations you're talking about, it's currently very hard to find spaces that make that possible. That's why lbz exists in the form it does. However, I completely understand that some people do want that opportunity. And if that's you, you're welcome to maintain multiple accounts. You'll always have a space here, but you can also use instances that give you access to less protective spaces.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

but Blåhaj can't demand that their rules be enforced in other instances.

Didn't ask them to, nor have I asked any other instances to defederate from feddit.uk. What I asked for is clarification of how they implement their own rules, in order for me to decide whether or not LBZ stays federated with them.

The truth is, transphobia is now legal in the UK. UK instance admins are in a hard spot, because removing transphobia that is institutionally protected in their own country is now a lot more complex.

However, it's not more complex for blahaj zone. We don't allow transphobia. End of story. And if the difficult situation feddit.uk finds themselves in means they will allow transphobia that aligns with the UKs legislation, I'm not going to tell them they should do otherwise. I would hope they do otherwise, but ultimately, it's their call. However, if the call they make is to allow legal transphobia, we will remain defederated to minimise the transphobia that reaches the blahaj zone community.

And you won't see me telling any other admins they have to make the same choice we do.

The power of federation is that people have the choice. If people, trans or not, are happy to wade in to debate with transphobes, there are options for them to do that. Or, there are instances like blahaj zone, where they don't have to play whack a mole with every new transphobe that appears.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 months ago

To be clear, at the time of defederation, they had not answered my question.

In response to my initial general question, I was told their preference is to let push back come via comments and votes.

I then provided links to posts in which someone explicitly stated trans women aren't women alongside several common transphobic dog whistles. I pointed out that one of the posts has more upvotes than downvotes, suggesting that social pushback isn't working, and asked for clarification on whether or not posts like that would be removed.

At this point, I got radio silence. I was not advised the admin team was discussing it, the posts were not removed and the admin who I was talking to was active elsewhere. After waiting nearly two days for a reply despite having mentioned this was serious enough to defederate over on two separate occasions, I made the assumption I wasn't going to get a reply, and defederated.

I'm happy to write that off as miscommunication though, given that they were talking as a team. If they ultimately decide that posts explicitly stating that trans women are not women will be removed, we will refederate

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 months ago (3 children)

If you're concerned about implications, you need to be careful of your own, because you're implying that I think the feddit.uk admins are transphobic, when I think no such thing. They actively pushed back against transphobia in their comments, and not in a half hearted manner. They are quite clearly not transphobic.

However, leaving transphobia visible, even whilst pushing back against it is against their own instance rules, and allows transphobes to know they can safely post more transphobia in the future, as long as they keep it civil. And that last part is the bit that initiated defederation.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

The right being lost isn't the right to play sports. It's the right to equality.

And it's great that your for something that isn't going to happen in our lifetimes. But in the mean time, trans people have to navigate the situation we do have.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/archlinux@lemmy.ml
 

I'm running an nvidia card on X11 Plasma 6, with a 4K monitor alongside a QHD monitor. Both monitors are the same physical size, despite being different resolutions, so in the nvidia settings app, I've got the second X screen setup to generate 4K but downscale it to QHD in the output. It makes the second screen slightly blurry, but it's worth it for the ability to move windows back and forth without dealing with different resolutions.

The problem is, no matter what I do, I can't make the changes "stick". The nvidia applet has an option to save it to the x.conf file, and I've verified that it has done so in a text editor. But every time I boot, I have to change it in the nvidia settings applet again.

Is there something I'm missing with the way arch/kde handles x conf files? How do I make it stick between reboots?

 
 

I guess we won't be ordering from the McDonald's drive-thru any time soon!

Image description: A shot of Toombul Shopping Center taken at dusk. A large construction machine sits to the left of the photo, and the up-ramp that used to lead to the McDonalds drive-thru has been completely demolished.

 

Installed Arch this weekend. My transition is now complete :P

 

We are running Navidrome to serve up our music, and I want to use smart playlists to listen to my music on "random", but in a way that surfaces higher rated songs more often. Doing it this way requires a smart playlist that contains other smart playlists.

Unfortunately, it seems that Navidrome smart playlists only allow me to include non smart playlists in my playlist. I've got a subsonic compatible Android client that does what I need (though it doesn't sync the playlists back to Navidrome), but what I need is a subsonic compatible windows client with the smart list within a smart list functionality, or a way of making Navidrome serve them up directly.

Has anyone found clients that support this, or found a way of making navidrome smart playlists within other smart playlists?

 

I went roller skating at a queer skate event last night. I've been rollerskating my whole life, and played roller derby, which has a high queer quotient, but last night was something else. There was so much queer pride, and the gender binary was well and truly fucked with! I had such a good time, and it was so empowering to be surrounded by my people.

They even had a couples and throuples skates!

I think I'm going to do it again :)

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/running@lemmy.world
 

I hate wearing sports bras when I'm running because of the tightness around my chest. I'm starting to get used to running without a bra, but what I'm having trouble with is understanding what the long term impacts are?

The internet tells me it's fine, and but it also says that it's a bad idea, which is entirely unhelpful!

Has anyone had experience running without a bra and if so, how did you find it (assuming you have boobs)?

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/coffee@lemmy.world
 

The additive haters won me over. I tried a long black today, and I'll give it another week or so and see how I go!

The taste is good, but it lacks the body/mouthfeel that I'm used to, which I think is what I most struggle with, but I'm hoping that will change as I get used to it!

 

Coffee fedi, help me out!

I'm getting more and more milk/lactose intolerant as I get older, but lactose free milk is too sweet for me.

I don't sweeten my coffee, and even lactose free milk with no sweetener else makes my coffee too sweet.

So, what do I replace my milk with when I order coffee?

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/9762387

Image description: A small sparrow sized bird with a red head, and pointed crest, standing on pavement, with some moss in its beak

#AvesArgentinas #birds #DailyBird #cardinal

 

In the last 24 hours you've likely noticed that we've had some performance issues on Blåhaj Lemmy.

The initial issue occurred as a result of our hosting provider having technical problems. We use Hetzner, who provides hosting for approximately a third of the fediverse, so there was wide spread chaos above and beyond us.

As of lemmy 19.x, messages queue rather than getting silently dropped when an instance is down, so once Hetzner resolved their issues, we had a large backlog of jobs to process. Whilst we were working through the queues, we were operational, but laggy, and our messages were an hour or more behind. These queues aren't just posts and replies, but also include votes, so there can be a large volume of them, each one of which needs to be remotely verified with the sending instance as we process it, so geographical latency also plays a part.

As you can see from the graph, we are finally through the majority of the queues.

The exception is lemmy.world. Unfortunately, the lemmy platform processes incoming messages on a sequential basis (think of it as a sequential queue for each remote instance), which means Blahaj Lemmy can't process a second lemmy.world message until we've finished processing the first message.

Due to the size of Lemmy.world they are sending us new queue items almost as fast as our instance can process them, so the queue is coming down, but slowly! In practical terms, this means that lemmy.world communities are going to be several hours behind for the next few days.

For those that are interested, there is a detailed technical breakdown of a similar problem currently being experienced by reddthat, that explores the impact of sequential processing and geographical latency.

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