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[–] ada@friend.blahaj.zone 23 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

@Lofi_Haze

> transitioning children via pharmaceuticals is that great

Good thing it doesn't happen then hey?

But still, people want to "just talk about it" as if it does.

And you know, when you're the target of endless bullshit and lies spread about you, so much so that people who don't know any better parrot and perpetuate the bullshit, whilst crying out how hard done by they are when people push back against them for repeating the harmful bullshit they don't understand... You know, when that happens enough, you kinda get sick of it...

[–] ada@friend.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

This sort of thing is why I'm excited! That's from the Insta 360 website, showing an older device that let you strap a 360 camera to a drone. It was unreliable, and they quietly dropped the product line, but when you see things like this, you can see what the potential of a well done 360 drone is!

All of the original content was shot in 360 degree video, and then reframed in post processing.

tube.blahaj.zone/w/9t1YXM9cge7…

 

I just discovered that Insta 360 is apparently going to release two drones sometime this year! I've been ranting to anyone that will listen about how much potential there is for 360 video on a drone, and my surprise that it's not really an option, and apparently someone heard my rants :P

Anyway, I'm a bit excited and can't wait to get my hands on them!

[–] ada@friend.blahaj.zone 33 points 1 week ago (3 children)

The issue is, there are a large amount of people "JAQ"ing off (Just Asking Questions), sealioning and trolling. And no amount of engagement and discussion with those folk will change their minds, because they're not open to that. And worse than that, it also normalises the idea that trans rights, trans identities etc are up for debate. So these sorts of engagements do harm, by making folk more comfortable airing "mild" anti trans opinions.

And of course, not everyone engaging in these discussions and topics is doing so in bad faith. Some people can be turned around. But research has shown that even when folk are acting in good faith, they still have a tendency to double down on harmful opinions when challenged, because facts don't change minds. Emotions do. So until we can know the outcome before engagement, we're more likely to make things worse than better.

And that's why on blahaj.zone, it's a non starter. Blahaj zone communities are intended to be safe spaces, where folk can get away from discussions about whether we deserve the same rights as other folk, and whether our identities are real, and whether it's ok to exclude us from parts of society. We explicitly do not have the goal of educating people, because that is a huge emotional burden, that doesn't really pay off most of the time.

If you want to change minds, the ways to do it are in the immediate social circles around you. The people that know you are the most likely to be "brought around" and they will be brought around by you simply existing on their radar, and making emotional space for you. The other way to do it is social friction. Protests, shutdowns, pushbacks etc. These are especially effective when they come from allies. Basically, when you make a social context in which trans discriminatory positions have negative repercussions, people are less likely to voice those opinions, and the opinions are less likely to be normalised.

The goal of blahaj.zone spaces is to create exactly that social context. And honestly, I think that banning someone who holds misinformed, but harmful opinions is more likely to change their mind, than a civil debate. It's a low chance either way, but at least banning them sends a clear message.

[–] ada@friend.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm not sure I get much of it anymore. I think it's more a lack of dysphoria. I still get moments of dysphoria, and moments of euphoria, but they feel like part of the background hum of life, rather than at the forefront

[–] ada@friend.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

@oftheair I don't know what is going wrong with the UI recently. You can access it through apps or alternative front ends until we get to the bottom of it.

[–] ada@friend.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 weeks ago

@DiaDeLosMuertos I mean, you didn't just pick one of the reasons, you got them all! You definitely deserve a prize!

You're not getting one, but you deserve one!

[–] ada@friend.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Why am I not in bed?

[–] ada@friend.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago

@A_Union_of_Kobolds I mean, it depends

The Great Egret is from the genus Ardea, which is a genus of herons...

But, the White Faced Heron is from the genus Egretta, which are egrets...

Egrets resist the boxes we want to put them in :P

[–] ada@friend.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 weeks ago

Specifically, it's a Little Blue Heron

[–] ada@friend.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Wait until you encounter the folk that call them egrets!

[–] ada@friend.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

@lambda I had been using arch for a while, and didn't want to leave the rolling distro format, but I wanted to try something new. Initially, it was mostly their pre optimised repositories (and the fact they include some popular AUR packages in their optimised repos). But I also came to appreciate their reconfiguration of things like fish and snapper as really good starting points.

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