Wutchilli

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[–] Wutchilli@feddit.org 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Ein sortierter kompletter Stecknusskasten muss leider aktiv verteidigt werden :(

[–] Wutchilli@feddit.org 3 points 18 hours ago (3 children)

Spannend ist auch das Phänomen dass sobald du dein eigenes Werkzeug gut sortiert aufbewahrst es plötzlich das Lieblingswerkzeug aller wird.

[–] Wutchilli@feddit.org 8 points 6 days ago

Sounds like a normal engineer to me.

[–] Wutchilli@feddit.org 4 points 1 week ago

So far i didnt had that problem, but to be fair i also dont feel the normal emotion spectrum so i would not feel insulted.

[–] Wutchilli@feddit.org 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thank you for that response <3

[–] Wutchilli@feddit.org 11 points 2 weeks ago

Fühl dich (wenn du das willst) umarmt und wisse dass wir dich akzeptieren und unterstützen.

[–] Wutchilli@feddit.org 19 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Calcium is a metal tho...

[–] Wutchilli@feddit.org 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Would you gain anything from telling them or not telling them? How open minded are they? Would you introduce a open queer friend to your parents? Did they interacted with lgbtq+ topics before?

I think that might be the basic thoughts for a risk-reward assessment.

For example: If it weights on you that you cant be openly yourself around your parents and your parents have a history of being open minded the go for it.

If you dont realy care and your parents made comments about "the sinfull woke" then you better stay quiet.

[–] Wutchilli@feddit.org 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

This meme also seems to be an autism thing but adhd and autism sometimes co-occur and or can share similar symptoms.

And it could also be that one builds different personalitys to fit in with society, so more like a coping mechanism.

[–] Wutchilli@feddit.org 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Jup absolutely normal (dont ask that question to cis people you dont trust tho... )

[–] Wutchilli@feddit.org 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It certainly helps to hear that the "fuck gender, gender is just a social construct " approach is a thought other beings had :D. And to focus on single things instead of the whole picture is a good advice, makes it easyer to approach the "problem" so thank you.

[–] Wutchilli@feddit.org 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Hmmm, thank you for providing that information. (Tho surgery is scary and feels very final)

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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by Wutchilli@feddit.org to c/autism@lemmy.world
 

Honestly i dont even know if i can put the things i feel at the moments in written words but i need to get them of my chest.

I hate being autistic at the moment.

I managed to build a friendgroup in the last two years, we hang out at the local hackspace, did sport together talked about emotions, cuddle etc.

I felt realy safe so I opend up, didnt mask all the time, told them how i feel when many humans are around, how i can crash when my social battery runs to low, how i make decisions, which emotions i have and which i dont, how i sometimes still struggle with being a human...

An with that parts of the group started to change, acted different around me, stoped being cuddly with me, told me that i should not come to partys because i might crash and they then dont want to care about me (they never had to before), and it just feels like i am no longer 100% welcome among some of them.

And i just hate it, i hate me, i want to undo telling them. But i also want to belong, feel safe, not needing to mask all the time and being accepted like i am.

 

Ist doch ganz normal, eins hat doch normalerweise kein Gefühl oder Emotion für Geschlecht, oder ...oder?

 
 

Es wird auch dieses Jahr wieder auf dem Chaos Communication Congress die Möglichkeit geben als Auszubildende ins Chaos zu schnuppern. Bedingungen gibt es keine außer dass ihr eine Ausbildung (egal welche) machen müsst.

Mehr Infos: https://events.ccc.de/congress/2024/infos/azubi-tag.html

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