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Sounds like a normal engineer to me.

So far i didnt had that problem, but to be fair i also dont feel the normal emotion spectrum so i would not feel insulted.

Thank you for that response <3

Fühl dich (wenn du das willst) umarmt und wisse dass wir dich akzeptieren und unterstützen.

Calcium is a metal tho...

Would you gain anything from telling them or not telling them? How open minded are they? Would you introduce a open queer friend to your parents? Did they interacted with lgbtq+ topics before?

I think that might be the basic thoughts for a risk-reward assessment.

For example: If it weights on you that you cant be openly yourself around your parents and your parents have a history of being open minded the go for it.

If you dont realy care and your parents made comments about "the sinfull woke" then you better stay quiet.

This meme also seems to be an autism thing but adhd and autism sometimes co-occur and or can share similar symptoms.

And it could also be that one builds different personalitys to fit in with society, so more like a coping mechanism.

Jup absolutely normal (dont ask that question to cis people you dont trust tho... )

It certainly helps to hear that the "fuck gender, gender is just a social construct " approach is a thought other beings had :D. And to focus on single things instead of the whole picture is a good advice, makes it easyer to approach the "problem" so thank you.

Hmmm, thank you for providing that information. (Tho surgery is scary and feels very final)

I am not sure/am still thinking about how i perceive my body and how i want other to perceive it.

Recently i tried to wear a skirt and realized that i look more masculine in it than i thought and to my suprise i didnt like that. So i guess i want to be percived without a specific gender or as something in between.

And if i could magically assemble a new body for me (work in progress):

• i would keep my height (190cm), bodytype (slender), amount of muscles(want to keep working in my trade/lift shit), eye/skin/hair color
• geht me self a little amount of boobs (i like having some)
• get smoother skin
• remove bodyhair and facial hair (i dont feel confortable with both and shaving is exhausting and never perfect)
• genitals i dont know, i am fine with my penis but am not attached to it so i wouldnt mind having a vagina (maybe go for both just so i dont need to decide, its magic after all)

Someday i had the thougth that the existence of trans people implies that there must be a emotion/feeling or way of knowing your own gender.

So i asked the people that i trust, they confirmed the existence of a gender feeling, and that left me questioning.

Do i have a feeling and dont realize it, do i have no feeling, what the heck is a gender, what does that mean for me, are part of my body issues conected with that topic etc.