Vanth

joined 2 years ago
[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 5 points 2 months ago

If I care enough about another user to note them across time and communities, I give them a tag.

In the other direction, I don't expect anyone to recall my username from one thread to another, to build any sense of my broader personhood greater than one interaction provides.

An avatar just seems unnecessary. I'm also on an app that only displays them if I go out of my way to see them.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 23 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I have kept half an eye open for updated workarounds since the Feb 25 change and haven't heard of any.

In my personal framework, once I've bought a copy and supported the artist, it doesn't weigh on me to acquire a copy elsewhere. YMMV.

I'm choosing to buy from Not-Amazon going forward. All the major alternatives I've looked into similarly lock the content to their readers and apps (based on agreement they have with author), but unlike Amazon, they state it clearly up front and aren't changing access retroactively.

Shoutout to bookshop.org for being crystal clear in product descriptions when an ebook is DRM-free.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Is that really the message you got? It's worded differently than what I see in mine.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 162 points 2 months ago

You're an AH for this unnecessary detail in particular:

she's had two babies by two different guys.

Just admit you're not friends. That's fine and doesn't make you an AH. Getting all puritanical over something that does not impact your life does.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 18 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I worked at a job site prone to flooding so it was mandated to speed evacuations. I liked it and kept the habit.

Then some misogynist asshat told me it's a masculine thing to do and I should be careful to come across more ladylike. So added on a layer of spite and anti-bigot defenses to why I keep doing it.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 3 points 2 months ago

Agreed. I didn't consume many reviews until after I watched it and was confused. Did people go in expecting a different genre of movie? Something more artsy and less humorous maybe? It's not going to win Oscars, but it is a solid adaption of the book and representative of the genre.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 4 points 2 months ago

People that like Fight Club, American Psycho, and Starship Troopers... k, but like, do you get it or are you a nut job?

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Sounds like a better state-backed initiative would be to make mental health services available to this dude and to anyone else dealing with addiction issues. Especially since I assume this door guard was older than 18 and age verification, no matter how private, would have done nothing to stop his access to porn.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

you gotta admit that there are psychological effects on avid adult viewers and more on minors

Citation needed when we're talking about implementing laws and opening up lawsuits suing for $75k+. Multiple robust peer-reviewed citations needed. Preferably not funded by a Catholic church group.

Also it's a leap to say top-down privacy invading laws are the way the state or federal government should handle it instead of the concerned parent monitoring computer usage. There's so many free and subscription based parental control tools out there. Comprehensive sex education would be a potential alternate way for the state to support parents and teens to educate them on porn consumption and safe internet usage.

FYI, NCOSE, the group joining (likely funding) the lawsuit, is against comprehensive sex education.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 37 points 2 months ago

I hope those aren't his real initials because it seems like there's more than enough information to identify him between the article and complaint filing. Poor kid doesn't deserve to be dragged into this.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 11 points 2 months ago

Ty! TIL. I've probably seen it many times before, but it only jumped out at me this time given the Olathe, KS setting and strong fundie Christian vibes.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 5 points 2 months ago

Agreed. As a lawyer friend once told me, "you can sue someone for damn near anything. It doesn't mean you'll win".

I imagine the "disability and disfigurement" will get sussed out at some point and either backed up w some sort of evidence, or taked out from the rest of the complaint.

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