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Oh I have that too and it must be in a box somewhere, I'll have to look for it. Unfortunately I never got it to run back then :(

Hey you! Don't call me out like that, okay? :(

Bur seriously I really like em dashes when writing in a roleplay or similar texts. I think it's a nice option to style and structure some sentences. And even though not many people use them, I hate that they became a mark of shame of some kind.

Dude, it's frickin trading card game! It's not that their proud of punching someone in the face. Stop being so salty about it.

Take your meds if you have them. And like others said, write yourself a protocol. I personally hate doing that but it's the only way I can stay focused in a meeting. In addition to that, everything I don't immediately write down, I'll forget in the next few minutes. Everyone's always amazed by how well I can recall details of past meetings, when it's actually the opposite lol

I'm sorry, because then your juniors must be really shit. I gave AI tools multiple chances already but they produce so much garbage. Even a very inexperienced junior will produce better code after a few weeks of training.

Sorry for my late reply. Yes we've talked about that but the result is essentially that I either have to get it together and deal with having kids in the future, or she'll leave. From her side it's not an option to not have kids—currently at least.

I think it's mostly a matter of taste. Iirc Darktable offers more advanced options in regards to developing RAW files compared to RawTherapee. I moved from Lightroom directly to Darktable and I'm very happy with it. But maybe just try both and see what feels better to you.

I also have ADHD and am in a similar struggle. I'm male and my wife really wants to have kids. I wanted that too in the past, but I'm very afraid of not being able to handle the constant stress. Eventhough I'm medicated, I still have days frequently, where everything's just too much. Throwing a child into the mix and I feel like I would probably have to put myself into a closed psychiatric.

So I can not help you there I'm afraid. But what caught my eye is, that you say your relationship is / was hanging by a thread. That's absolutely not a good base for getting children. Broken or weak relationships won't get stronger with a child. They'll break sooner or later and then the kid has to cope with divorced parents. I know you said that you both feel better now, but please keep that in mind and be sure, that you are strong together before getting a child, because it will get stressful and will test you and your relationship.

I wish you all the best though and what ever your final decision will be, it will be the correct one.

Every car I owned so far was a manual and only rentals were sometimes automatic. But that's purely due to cost. I dive out of necessity, not for fun and an automatic is so much more relaxing in stop-and-go rush hour traffic than a manual stick shift.

I need to look it up again, but I read about a study that showed that the results improve if you tell the AI that your job depends on it or similar drastic things. It's kinda weird.

Does anyone have resources for ADHD friendly clean-up techniques? And I don't mean cleaning-up like in "removing dirt" but how to sort your stuff? My main chaos exists because I don't know where to put everything.

Thank you again for this great post!

I'm a little skeptical about Manjaro on the ZOTAC. I used it for quite some time on a PC but it was always just a matter of time until it broke due to version conflicts. Developers for AUR packagages assume that you're using the main Arch repo. So when you use the Manjaro repo, which is always a few weeks behind the official Arch one, the AUR updates break pretty regularly. Though you probably don't want to use the AUR on a handheld anyway.