TotallyNotSpezUpload

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[–] TotallyNotSpezUpload@startrek.website 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

That information is outdated. Anyone can change name and gender at their local registry office. You need to apply for it there, wait three months and then you can complete the paperwork for the change you want (female / male / diverse). You can also just delete the gender option for all your documents altogether.

This change in law was introduced in late 2024 (Selbstbestimmungsgesetz).

Wir waren gestern mit zwei Freunden auf einem Konzert von Project Pitchfork. Die gibt es schon seit gut 36 Jahren. Ich habe sie mehrfach live gesehen und die gestrige Show war wohl mein bisher schönstes und entspanntestes Erlebnis. Das Konzert war gut besucht, aber auch nicht überfüllt. Im ganzen Saal gab es eigentlich überall noch Platz für vier weitere Personen, man konnte gemütlich von A nach B gehen. Musikalisch ein Hochgenuss und auch optisch ein echter Hingucker. Kann ich nur weiter empfehlen.

[–] TotallyNotSpezUpload@startrek.website 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Janeway hates Asian people because there was always one during her cadet years at the Academy who kept scoring slightly better than her during exams.

Some people hate the names their parents gave them. So did I and I legally changed it as soon as I could.

[–] TotallyNotSpezUpload@startrek.website 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Cancer, and Wolf 🤘

"These are small, but the ones out there are far away. Small... Far away."

[–] TotallyNotSpezUpload@startrek.website 50 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

My Cleric just clubbed the hell out of enemies while low-key tanking and healing party members. ^^

[–] TotallyNotSpezUpload@startrek.website 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Since PM didn't work out:

Your health is your wealth. Be kind to all animals.

[–] TotallyNotSpezUpload@startrek.website 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Ah, thanks. I've never seen it before.

[–] TotallyNotSpezUpload@startrek.website 6 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Spending a lot of time with our dog outdoors.

 

Moin, ich trainiere mir schon längere Zeit mehr Schärfe an und ich suche nun nach einem DE Shop, wo man Packungen mit verschiedenen Sorten zum Testen und einzelne Flaschen erwerben kann, gerne auch exotische Varianten. Qualität und Preis sollten stimmig sein. Wer kann mir helfen?

 

Das nicht vegetarische Zeug ist Futter für den Hund - bevor ihr fragt. ;)

 

As a person who grew up in Ireland, being a drummer nerd myself, hats off! Such a sweet tribute to Shane. <3

 

Kennt eigentlich irgendjemand hier das tollste Buch von Douglas Adams? Last chance to see?

 

So, long story short: I've been a musician for pretty much all my life. After a massive hearing loss, I picked up drums about a year ago and I've had so many great teachers myself. Now the local music school asked me if I could teach drums to their kids. They lost their former teacher due to old age.

I have rarely dealt with children. Sure, I was a tutor for some when it comes down to languages, but teaching music? That is so new to me and I'm actually afraid.

I am all gauntles right now negotiating the deal here: I want espescially girls to learn a new intrument. They must be bored out of themselves just playing the flute, organ and piano.

So, my approach is probably this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VL5oBbriJuQ

:D

Any hints or tips you can give me? Please?

I'm a 38 years old lesbian with basically no clue whatsoever when it comes down to dealing with kids... ^^

EDIT: I'm afraid the girls want me to play pop music on the drums, and I get easily bored by that.

Watch one of my drumming teachers.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cHl_gsd0OR0

XD

 

So, last night I had to attend a wake. I don't know if it's only a European thing, my sisters overseas might have to google that one up just in case, but yeah, it was odd. At some point one of my best friends waltzed in with this HUGE guy, like 2 meters tall, and his tiny wife went along as well. My good friend apparently told them who I am, and the huge ass guy and his tiny wife immediately went FAN MODE:

Yoooo, your album from 2008 is in our cupboard!

I'm a shy person and being this overwhelmed with fans, that was very strange and scary to me at first. But we had a good run. Just talking about music nonstop.

To me, which I could laugh about, was the fact that I'm doing very, very different music these days, playing a different instrument, just doing my thing and yeah, I had to share phone numbers with them so I can share what I'm doing now.

A really, really weird, but fun night. Music nerds meeting another music nerd... :D

 

So, a bit of background about me. I play the drums for fun, used to be a professional musician in the past and basically quit after losing most of my hearing during a live gig with my former band back in 12/2008.

I only started drumming about 10 months ago, I became fairly good quick thanks to some amazing teachers, but only play in my rented session room 4 fun. That is my personal safe space and my version of self therapy.

There's no BS going on in there, just me, drums, a couch for naps, a laptop with webcam for my teachers and a mini fridge for cool drinks.

I suffer from Dysthymia and right now I'm going through a phase of so called double depression again thanks to new meds I couldn't deal with. My thoughts were getting darker and darker, which is almost impossible in the first place, and my energy levels went straight to zero.

Got a text message last night and I thought: 'Ughhh, what's it now? Who wants something from me?' while snug up in my bed.

Yeah, who was that? One of my amazing teachers from the States (I live in Europe) and he was like:

Yooo, haven't heard from you in like two weeks? You doing okay? You good? You haven't booked any new training sessions either.

Yeah, not doing so great right now. It is what it is. Can't say when I want to book a new session to be honest. Everything's fucked in my head right now.

How about you get your ass out of bed and jam with me? I don't want your money, I just want to play with you together, because I think you're awesome and I love your style. I'll never charge money from you ever again, that's a promise. I just want to play along with you, girl!

THAT was a huge compliment. A living music legend like him saying he likes my style?

So, I took my bicycle, hauled my arse over to my session room - which is about 25 minutes away in the middle of nowhere (I live in the countryside) and we just played for about 3 hours until we were both so exhausted, just laughing together, sharing stories and we kicked back a few cold ones via webcam.

That dude is so amazing and chill. And I want to thank him for getting me out of this very dark place last night.

<3

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ich📄📑🧾iel (infosec.pub)
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Sie sind eine der unausstehlichsten Rassen in der Galaxis - nicht direkt böse, aber mies gelaunt, bürokratisch, aufdringlich und gefühllos. Sie würden nicht einmal den kleinen Finger rühren, um ihre eigene Großmutter vor dem Gefräßigen Plapperkäfer von Traal zu retten, ohne dass Anweisungen in dreifacher Ausfertigung unterschrieben, eingereicht, zurückgereicht, beanstandet, verloren, gefunden, einer öffentlichen Untersuchung unterworfen, wieder verloren und schließlich drei Monate in weichen Torf gesteckt und als Feueranzünder wiederverwendet werden.

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iel (infosec.pub)
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Passiv-aggressiv? Kann ich!

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