Thallo

joined 1 year ago
[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

I'm from a different time chomsky-yes-honey

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I didn't enjoy it despite that because I probably didn't even register it. This was 24 years ago! Lol

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I remember nothing about that game except that I really liked it kitty-birthday-sad

Edit: also, there's an enemy called a bandersnatch with a really long arm

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

Cis people who browse this mega "for fun"

We need you help spirit-bomb

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You must use your newfound power to achieve this

We need to declare an Edien jihad

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago

It's interesting to see that half the site is queer, and the numbers line up because the trans mega is pretty much half the size of the site wide mega in terms of comments

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Oh my god, we're going to do it, aren't we?

We're going to break 500 biden-horror

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

Hard times.

A saboteur now needs to take on two jobs (Soros and Xi) just to survive 😢

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

A pop? Kind of feels like a quick burn to me.

Don't think you can tell if it's working until you've done it for a few sessions

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

What is this power!? thurston

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

No problem! I paid for years of therapy so you don't have to! (Even though you are)

So, for me, my sea legs came from recognizing a few things:

  1. Confidence and control. I recognized that I don't have control over a lot of the things I feel. Panic, dysphoria, depression, etc. but I do have control over how I interpret those sensations and how I want to cope with them. I'm terms of anxiety, recognizing harmful thoughts and reinterpreting them to make them harmless is really important.

  2. Acceptance and love. I decided I need to accept whatever I am. Am I a cis guy? Okay, I love myself. Am I a trans woman? Okay, I love myself. If I transition will I be ugly? Okay, I love myself. Will I make permanent changes to my body that I'll regret? Okay, I love myself. Are these gender feelings I'm having all a manifestation of mental illness? Okay, I love myself. Is this just some sexual perversion I'm acting out? Okay, I love myself.

I found that once I just accepted myself for who I am WITHOUT JUDGEMENT (this is huge!) that a lot of the above negative thoughts just kind of dissolved. That above list could be a lot longer-- I had so many, but no matter what the answer is, I still deserve to be loved. So do you.

I hope you can find that for yourself soon meow-hug

PS: I found reading queer lit helped me because it gave me a framework to understand my feelings by listening to other people who went through it. I might recommend checking some out

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