TerminalEncounter

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I love exhibitionists ❤️

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Blame Caeser, fwiw like 50 people stabbed the guy (unrelated to calendar fuckery)

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I think it's kinda cool and funny that he keeps threatening not to reincarnate, regardless of everything else. I wish I could threaten people by saying I'll haunt them after death or choose to escape the eternal cycle of dharma

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

There was this other motivation modality thingy? There were externally motivated, internally motivated, and then permutations of those. Most people were externally (or was it extrinsically? I can't remember) motivated, so need to make an obligation to others or feel some duty or whatever to get motivated. If you keep procrastinating and its actually like bothering you and causing you stress, you can do an accountability style thing and have someone else you report your progress to.

There were other ones too, internal motivators can just set a goal and do the thing because they set the goal but dont care as much for external obligations. Then the superheroes who have both and can make and keep new years resolutions and also make firm plans with friends and show up on time, and then the cursed lot like us who have neither - the self-help crap book said we counted as "rebels" so at least gave it a neat name lol. If the last one is you, you just gotta try stuff until it works I guess.

trans-heart

Passing for the first few times for me was the best feeling in the world! I did not care at all if it's cause, at the time, I was in a very small town and everyone just knew already and were being polite or I legit just looked like a girl. It's still great to pass but it's a much smaller joy now lol

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 2 years ago

Had a patient who was hit by a truck, it was slower speed. The kid is made of steel or something, they were walking around 3 days later kept saying no to harder pain meds and stuck with tylenol. Wanted to watch me pull out their IV lol

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 5 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Some people NEED that burst of adrenaline from leaving stuff last minute to be creative or productive, there's ways around it. The only thing that worked for me was setting my own deadlines to have steps of whatever it was done, then I could procrastinate until each mini deadline - give it a shot if you want, but I think this is just one of those things you have to try a bunch of stuff until something sticks.

You could make a little 2x2 grid, top left is "time sensitive and easy" top right is "time sensitive and hard" bottom left is "can wait until later and easy" and bottom right is "can wait until later and hard" and just wrap up a few things in top left to give future you a hand up - if there's nothing there, then do some bottom left. After a couple of those, go to sleep and do your best tomorrow.

Some people with ADHD need "body doubling" (I think it's called), so maybe have someone on the phone or in person also doing chores and see how much you can get done.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I do too, not every night finally, and almost always we're just back together like nothing happened lol. It's always a little weird to wake up in an empty bed and just feel that tiny gut punch first thing when I wake up "oh yeah, I'm alone now"

I haven't seen any jimquisition videos in a while, Stephanie Sterling looks soo pretty!

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Uranus' moons are named after Shakespeare characters which I always think is kinda fun!

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 39 points 2 years ago

Come home to hexbear

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 47 points 2 years ago

mcdonalds and america are one and the same

the golden arches sing from sea to shining sea

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