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Hopefully nothing will change for those of us using third party methods to access it.

Hope they know never to talk to cops.

[Reference] Define Interesting.

Yes! Sybil is amazing

This was the great news I had 😀

Kind of shocked that he was using big tech instead of self hosting or using the fediverse, or a nextcloud instance and smaller email providers or something.

This has happened before and it will happen again, wondering why open source developers of all people don't realise this.

Tech obsessives have never cared about consent. To them people are just things they can make do things, just data they can get what they want from, since technology does that they think people should be like that too. This isn't the beginning of that attitude, it's just the continuation of it as it's easier than ever!

They have been salivating for this day for a long time, now it's finally arrived and they couldn't be happier as it allows them to not 'waste' time asking people for consent, paying them for their time and skills, or even taking the time to learn the skills for themselves, it finally does what they have been hoping and dreaming for for so long!

[Sarcasm] I am shocked!

Sure, but make sure you have 0 money in a bank then, else they'll just take it from there or freeze your assets etc.

I have great news

Hey, uh, you might want to stop using substack links considering they openly promote nazi shit now and are a nazi bar, and have been for a while.

So just sexuality or kink things too (kink is not inherently sexual)?

Generally speaking though you're going to want to do reading up about things, watching videos (on youtube), listening to podcasts and really thinking about what it is you like, if possible without the gender binary and that whole performance etc.

Try to take yourself back to basics, what you fantasise about, how you like to be touched etc. Really explore ideas and concepts from the base of your psyche without lumping all the societal bullshit on top, if possible. It will take time and it'll probably be a struggle and take effort but it might improve things for you in general, whether or not you decide that you can only be a certain sexuality. I've found for me that exploring things through queer ungendered erotica with heavy emphasis on care, consent and communication can be useful but you did say no porn, so 🤷‍♀️.

Also, talk about things with each other without judgement, that'll help a lot.

Hope this helps!