similar situation here, i've spent so much time introspecting my identity and at this point i'm very confident in simply not giving a shit about the concept of gender and sexuality.
I'm not straight, i'm not gay, i'm not cis, i'm not trans, i'm me. Anyone who wants to tell me that i have to be trans because i like some things that are traditionally feminine can suck my genderless dick and hopefully realize that the concept of "cracking the egg" is inherently not particularly better than denying someone's identity as trans.
honestly the only reason i need to justify the egg prime directive is that BEING TRANS IS NOT THE ONLY VALID OPTION, we shouldn't imply that you have to be either cis or trans, AT ALL.
there is no reason to imply that people are trans, you can talk to them about exploring their identity and sexuality but don't fucking imply and assume things, it's up to the person themselves to reach a conclusion and if you genuinely want to help them then you must be neutral and only provide tools and emotional support.