SquishedFly

Yeah but sitting and cuddling yourself up into a ball by tucking your knees into your hoodie makes your back do the hurty... Or I'm just getting old

This is the first winter on estrogen and the first winter with my heater on full blast

I'm scared of the quarterly gas bill (｡﹏ ｡*)

Hmm you definitely do have a point, thank you for explaining c:

God I love this community so much. Exactly as I said in my earlier comment: "The moderation here is out of love for the community." And I'm so happy that that is the case.

Seriously, thank you for being a great moderator ;w;

Particularly in smaller communities like this entire Lemmy instance, it is much harder for toxicity to develop. Pretty much everyone knows that this community is about posting "lmao i'm lonely and/or horny" memes and it's easy for new people understand that too (like it was for me).

Why does reddit have so much toxicity though? The issue is that most mods only really care about a community just being in an acceptable state. What they don't do is actually make the community into a place where you want to spend more time on. They're doing the bare minimum to moderate as many communities as possible so that they can get notoriety and moderate bigger subreddits because bigger subs (or reddit themselves) can pay those moderators.

Reddit even actively encourages this behaviour, not only by paying those mods but also with some decisions on how subreddit management works (not going into details because you could find my reddit username with that).

The moderation here is out of love for the community. I know very well that the even worst communities can be made into a cozy space with good moderation but if there's no love for the community then there's no reason for it (which creates a downwards spiral because the more toxicity, the less love for a sub, and the less love, the less proper moderation).

For context: I was a moderator for a pretty big subreddit and am the only reason why the sub still exists to this day (even if it turned to shit again after my departure)

All of that being said tho:

This image is just a taste of what's out there that can be toxic

Please tell me why this is toxic, I don't think I understand ;-;

....my tits don't honk when I squeeze them tho ;-;

Update from a few days later: Yeah... I got attached and obsessed with someone (ó﹏ò｡)

I should really take that to heart too but I just can't help myself ;w;

470 hours of playtime and still missing achievements?

True but it's not only blood. Source 1 says it's 70-80ml of fluids, 35-40ml of which is blood.

Regardless, as someone who has an almost obsessive fascination with our beautiful red fluid, the idea of someone being squeamish about blood is wild to me

amount of blood per period: https://www.menstrual-matters.com/bloodloss/ (35 - 40ml, i took the higher estimate, sources for the values at the bottom)

amount of periods in total: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2244694/ (451.3, rounded down to 450)

40ml * 450 = 18000ml = 18l

I can't find the original numbers for average blood content in a human but the general consensus seems to be that it's between 4.5 and 5.5. It doesn't really matter though since, even if we say that you'd sacrifice 4 people with only 4.5l of blood, you'd still reach your desired 18l of sacrificial blood.

Ohhhh right that is something that happens too

I just thought they are growing again ;w;