SquishedFly

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[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Wait tr*nny is a slur...? Why?

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (4 children)

Probably a hot take but I disagree, it's the same issue as the whole "trap is a slur" situation that I also disagree with.

The issue is that, if the word is used against a trans woman without bottom surgery, it's a term that might not fit or be appropriate. With trap, it's just straight up misgendering, but it might fit someone who still identifies as male. With futa, (if I underatand your point) it might carry a lot of sexual meaning with it which could be inappropriate.

It's an issue with "who uses the word to describe who", and therefore isn't in my eyes a slur.

Edit: clarification

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Date idea: we board the ICE to Köln Hbf and play with our Nintendo 3DS together for the entire ride 👉👈🥺

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 5 months ago (1 children)

~~now paint the rest of the body too for full femininity~~

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 35 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (11 children)

and she's in bed next to me braless and smoking

Why does something so fukken hot as smoking have to be so incredibly unhealthy (ಥ﹏ಥ)

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 6 months ago

I... Having someone lay down on your tiddies hurts even if you don't have much (AA cup talking from experience here)...

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 6 months ago

Ah shit I should really learn how to spell (or disable autocorrect)...

Yeah I meant Aromantic

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

I must confess, I'm.... Well I'm in some sort of Ace and kinda Aro relationship so I still yearn for someone to kiss me (lucky me that it's an open relationship but I'm not gonna find anyone who wants to kiss me)

!my gf does sometimes play with my tits tho and it's the fucking best feeling ever!<

Edit: spelling

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 months ago

I'm actually generally scared of the fact that the entire world seems to wander more into right-wing conservatism...

My main hope is that parties like the AfD, the FPÖ (right-wing extremist party that won the election in Austria), Trump, ... will see things like gender identity as more of a side issue in the world and not doing anything, neither good nor bad because they have "better" things to do. I have no clue how gender identity even became a political issue in the first place but it really needs to stop

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 6 months ago

Autocorrect strikes again ;w;

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Well I tried but I wasn't good at it at all... I wish there where more dom trams girls ;-;

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I am cute and quirky precisely because I am medicated (tho it should stop in at most an hour for today... I'm scared, I've cried enough this week already)

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