SharkEatingBreakfast

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[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 11 points 5 months ago

Sowing the seeds of hopelessness, trying to get you to think your every effort is futile and doesn't matter.

It matters. You matter. Keep fighting. Do what you can. Be a beacon. Be a safe place & a safe person. Be kind. Send hope.

Not giving into despair is resistance.

Keep it up!

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 12 points 5 months ago

Tell them it's your shot-chalice!

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

pay attention to things that are actually happening, as well as things that people in power say

Ahh, well.... that's precisely the problem. ):

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (5 children)

haha

no, but seriously.. how do I deal with this?

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

When I owned a cat, I made sure that any keyboard I used had an on/off switch for that very reason.

Then he could stay on the keyboard to his heart's content, and I could turn it back on when he was done.

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 13 points 5 months ago

You don't have to be "cured" or anything, but it would be in your best interest & the interest of your future partner to learn good coping mechanisms, strategies, and improve your general mental welfare before you get involved with anyone.

Basically, you need to know how to care for yourself and your own mental health, first and foremost. That doesn't mean hiding it or having it "go away", but it does mean knowing that you would be able to support your partner in their struggles, as well.

A partner is NOT a replacement for a qualified therapist.

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 65 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

MARRY AND BREED

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

He brutalized a person.

That's the context.

What is wrong with you?

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 7 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Right?? I don't even break 300 weekly. ):

EDIT: Sorry, Errer! I wasn't trying to make you feel bad. It it definitely a good deal, tbf! For those who can afford it.

YES YES YES YES YES!!!!

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

socially awkward loser

He's a creep and a misogynist lol. You can be socially awkward, but by being the others, that's what makes you a loser.

I'm sure he was appreciated in some scenarios, but he was not liked.

His only friend is a little girl. Probably the only person who can tolerate him. Because A). he doesn't treat her like a conquerable object like he does adult women, and B). emotionally, they are on the same level.

And remember!— just because someone is willing to have sex with you doesn't make you not a loser!

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